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found some on etsy. spoiler 4 less space etc
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idc. as long as it doesnt portray aro in a neg light its cool. like another user said; im js looking 4 smth i relate to. but i do have a bias toward aro artists bc they have a more authentic view on the arospec exp; leading to better and more relatable aro rep. but again nothing much to say abt allo artists doing the same
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i made a typo in my name once and had to wait a month. i feel u
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it looked like a bot post to me tbh. it wouldve been so funny if they got hacked and the hacker thought it was funny to fuck around like that
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real. making fun of ppls harmless interests is wild
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the most obv 1s r saiki and gwenpool. but atp ive hcd way too many charas as arospec to differentiate between canon & hc lmao
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if ure half joking at least make it funny. jfc
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yeah ik. im not looking to be diagnosed even if i might be nd since im not really as affected. i never asked xim actually; xe just said it wo any elaboration. i still believe im nt since my bros just saying things but im def not mentally sane regardless my mom thought i had adhd bc i share some v obv symptoms like hyperactivity and trouble focusing but now she thinks im like this due to the internet; since it does reduce my attention span which makes it hard to focus. but wtvs
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its funny bc my bro suspected that im autistic but idt i share many autistic traits. well tbf i wouldnt know unless some1 points it out lmao
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https://aroarrows.wordpress.com found a cool arospec website dedicated to collecting arospec flags & presenting them in diff formats [eg. dividers; bunting etc]. check it out or not
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its weird to say i love any1 in gen bc i dont feel that way. my lack of empathy & attraction plays a huge part in my loveless id; that i only know im attached but even then its mostly subconscious. just lately my grandmas leg starting to hurt real bad so she wanted me to accompany her to the hospital along w my dad; i didnt want to go bc if the news r bad i wont know how to react since i wont feel anything. i wont feel terrible or worried 4 her im so disconnected from the concept of love in many aspects its insane. also reclaiming the heartless; soulless robot stereotype bc i really want closure despite my traits being sm of a freak according to society
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its mainly bc it has the word heart in it. so it got me thinking
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tbf its the heartless aro flag and i personally interpret the pink as flesh rather than romance
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Anyone else really wish they could live in a certain fictional universe?
illumi replied to HelloThere's topic in Off Topic
living in nichijous universe will def hit hard bc chaotic shit happens everyday and i get to witness all of em. saikis world is also neat since it censors nudity due to his powers. overall slice of life & comedy worlds would all be decent choices -
i love the loveless flags sm. 1st is loveless aro & the 2nd being loveless apl. as a dude whos on both spectrums seeing cool flags regarding aro/aplspec labels makes me happy
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ill drop my fav too. its called pixel 出席簿 and the options it had represents me perfectly; tho i have a darker skin tone. it only has 1 option 4 skin which sucks ass
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settled on these labels 4 now. i wish there was an anattractional flag tho
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me fr. i dont really ship. its kind of just what i say even 4 qprs. i just go 'oh theyre gay' and move on. i feel alienated from the shipping community cuz i hc most charas as strictly aspec & nonpartnering; so when i see the same charas getting shipped i think 'k ig'. never related when ppl ship charas romantically
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i personally have corvids; esp ravens as my symbol bc they also display homosexual behavior and r v smart; meaning that they know damn well theyre gay. which is the funniest bit
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Do you find that only "absolute" aros get acknowledged?
illumi replied to Picklethewickle's topic in Aromantic Discussion
its elitism. ppl really dislike seeing variations in a label. same thing happens in the ace community; except everything really gets worse when allos step in on the discourse bc oh boy; they have no fucking idea what kinda shit theyre spitting. [life story incoming] i was just in an argument w a rando hrs ago abt the validity of sognaresexuality and the dude thought its invalid bc it cant be a sexual orientation when he doesnt know asexuality isnt a sexual orientation bc it describes the lack thereof; it makes me think abt the treatment of the aspec community in gen god forbid we have any nuances and unconventional ways of exp attraction; bc some random ass will pull up and say 'umm actually ure not aspec/valid'. its so fucking annoying. just stop talking