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  • Birthday 12/21/2002

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  1. Sometimes I think about getting one but get nervous at the thought of being questioned about it, the left middle finger is quite an unusual placement for a ring 😅
  2. An aro character who is romance favourable, but I feel like that'd be too complicated to understand for allo people 🤷‍♀️
  3. i would have loved to know i was aro around 2016-2018, back when i was caught on exclusionist tumblr 😅
  4. not sure why ask here out of all places but where did you hear this or get this snippet from? maybe that'll help.
  5. definitely this, i might also suggest finding hobbies or interests to try and take your mind off the person? i believe some time apart could be beneficial in this case, log out and spend time off social media if possible.
  6. no need to apologize! i agree with the comment above, while blushing is a common thing in crushes, it doesn't neccessarily mean there's attraction.
  7. currently on my first week of vacation, can't wait to see what hybrid is all about 😅

  8. i think of men whenever i think about how i'd like to have children, but it never goes beyond that
  9. got aromantic the first time and cupioromantic on the second try 💁‍♀️
  10. i agree with this definition, "qp" (term that doesn't really apply here) attraction and romantic attraction are both similar concepts with the difference that one is based more on platonic connotations, but then again qprs are very diverse in the attraction felt so i don't think it's fair to compare it to romantic relationships.
  11. i also felt awkward most of the time in high school, i always thought that no one in my group was really "my type". it did get annoying hearing the same relationship drama over and over though, and sometimes they would come up to me for advice 🤦‍♀️
  12. not sure if its been mentioned before, but both kissing booth movies. the plot is stupid, all 3 main characters are annoying, and it's overall kinda cringy (the omg girls....). not to mention that the friendship elle and the other guy (lee i think was his name) had going on is just incredibly unrealistic and it was almost obsession from the guy's part (the fact that he was ignoring his girlfriend during half of the sequel) and also i just don't like noah, elle should have stayed with the dancing guy from the second movie.
  13. ilse

    am i aro?

    this part is similar to many aro discovery stories i've seen, the whole being uninterested in romantic relationships and crushing on someone just because people expect you to, that's a pretty big sign that you could be aro. though, at the end of the day, you know yourself better than anyone; so if you think aro fits, i say go for it 🙋‍♀️
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