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Revenge = sweet
Revenge = best served cold
Revenge = ice cream
MATHS
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it’s late and there’s testing tomorrow but enjoy one second doodle cat aöris
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This device is being confiscated by my parents, so I won't be online as much.
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I’m leavinggg tomorrow morning for maui (im goin on a mission trip!!) and im gonna be gone a whole weeek!!
so here’s another question ;;
Give a manfish a seed, and you free him for a day, but It takes a seedman to plant a fish that will some day roll over people he may never eat. yes.
i wanna lotta replies and then when i get back if im satisfied you guys can see my new skull that I acquired yesterday 👀
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@P4R4D0X there is no reception or Wi-Fi on Maui, don't you know?
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I’m leavinggg tomorrow morning for maui (im goin on a mission trip!!) and im gonna be gone a whole weeek!!
so here’s another question ;;
Give a manfish a seed, and you free him for a day, but It takes a seedman to plant a fish that will some day roll over people he may never eat. yes.
i wanna lotta replies and then when i get back if im satisfied you guys can see my new skull that I acquired yesterday 👀
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this is a quiet place 😊
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Got a 59/60 on the IAAT, going to Algebra 1 next year.
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I hate hearing about people's pathetic romantic problems. Go get a life.
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Can someone please tell me why the aro community nowadays thinks it's so 'weird' to have crushes on celebrities / fictional characters when I've met just as many aros who have admitted to crushing on celebrities / fictional people than allos??
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No, there is no good "cringe culture". At least if we define "cringe culture" as coming from a desire to mock and shame innocent people. This is indefensible, no exceptions. Good that I didn't defend cringe culture then. And blaming victims of online harassment is just awful. Good that I didn't engage in that.
Some threads here on this board admittedly give off a very strong cringe culture vibe, e.g. "Things you've never understood about romance". Similarly, all the many posts like "Isn't <something romantic> weird?"
And yes, this may feel hostile and off-putting for those who experience romantic attraction or are favorable towards it. I understand that.
(That was the context, very obviously, not some hypothetical aro who uploads screenshots from a dating profile of a neurodivergent kid and mocks it. Such a person cannot be defended. Does anyone seriously think otherwise?)
Yet, to put those posts in the same category as the "furry / cosplayer / ... cringe compilations" is strange (to put it mildly). Because what's radically ignored here is: "Isn't <something romantic> weird?" and the like can be interpreted charitably. It might not have a nasty motivation but come from genuine frustration, confusion, cognitive overload or anxiety.
I'm all for efforts to be nicer and quit / restrict / hide the stuff mentioned. I wouldn't miss that stuff. But maybe, maybe, members of a marginalized community, in their own space, should be interpreted charitably? And that's seriously lacking sometimes. I know that a couple of users left because of this.
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Can someone please tell me why the aro community nowadays thinks it's so 'weird' to have crushes on celebrities / fictional characters when I've met just as many aros who have admitted to crushing on celebrities / fictional people than allos??
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@The Newest Fabled Creature to be fair, compared with what alloromantics do to themselves, even the worst "cringe" posts by aros that I've seen are harmless. Look at the rampant dating app screenshot shaming, often combined with doxxing (when it clearly becomes harassment). X (formerly Twitter) is full of it.
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Can someone please tell me why the aro community nowadays thinks it's so 'weird' to have crushes on celebrities / fictional characters when I've met just as many aros who have admitted to crushing on celebrities / fictional people than allos??
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We have multiple aspect regarding our stance towards romance: attractional, emotional, social, political, philosophical. Some contradictions can be resolved by carefully looking at the aspect regarding which something was said. One can find e.g. fictional crushes weird and explain one's thoughts, but still support the freedom of people to engage in it free from hostility.
IMHO, the question boils down to: Should we keep strongly negative emotional attitudes about things other people find of supreme importance (romance, religion, ...) to ourselves? On the one hand, creating an aromantic equivalent of reddit.com/r/atheism (an endless stream of obnoxious ridicule thrown at romance - what will people, allies, grayros ... heck, even romance-favorable fellow aros think about us??) is awful. OTOH, some aros need a space where they can share such suppressed negative emotions. It helps them. Very tricky issue ... perhaps they should come with a content warning? Anyway, pleading for people to stop won't change anything, we'd need to change and enforce the board rules for any effect.
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Can someone please tell me why the aro community nowadays thinks it's so 'weird' to have crushes on celebrities / fictional characters when I've met just as many aros who have admitted to crushing on celebrities / fictional people than allos??
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i have objection! why am i still a young frog?? i am quite capable of living outside water too
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First time on arocalypes !! very excited 💫
im also down on AVEN !!
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@organs and bone@smac n cheeseits us again!
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I just realized vampires can't eat garlic bread and I feel so bad for them 😭😭😭
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We broke up.
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I got Pogued on the 3rd December. Absolute rubbish run this year.
And wham on the same car ride. So that was a poor show this year
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I got Pogued on the 3rd December. Absolute rubbish run this year.
And wham on the same car ride. So that was a poor show this year
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Messed up my physics exam i guess. God pls. It's so fucked up when your whole life are your grades and you can't even good ones
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Is there any way to know if a user report went through/what the results are? It's not that important, but I'm curious and I've never reported someone before today.
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The fact that i spend more time on arocolypse than any other social media speaks for itself
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After two weeks I am back from computer repairs!
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I just realized I've been on this forum for longer than nine months!!! 😱😱 This is actually crazy.