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  1. Welcome! I'm not the best at advice, but I just wanted to say hi, and I'm glad you're here and starting to figure yourself out. It can definitely feel daunting trying to find a label that fits, especially when your friends are all dating people, so I hope being on this forum can help :) Yes! Same. I think a lot of aros can probably relate to this. Anyway, welcome, and best of luck!
  2. I've had a crush on someone once, and other than that, experience zero romantic attraction, or at least, not enough for me to notice. For me, the experience of being romantically attracted to someone was exciting at first, because I thought it meant I would finally understand what people were talking about, and I wasn't weird or broken. (I knew very little about aromanticism at the time.) After the initial relief, though, it honestly kind of sucked. I'm fairly romance-repulsed, so even though I had these romantic feelings, I was grossed out by them at the same time. And then it never happened
  3. Grey aroace here! I experience extremely small amounts of romantic and sexual attraction, so that's the term I feel is most accurate for me.
  4. Greetings from another newbie! Your experience of finding the aro and ace community sounds pretty similar to mine. I realized I was asexual, did a whole bunch of research, freaked out a bit, but thought "things will be okay because I'm not aromantic and can still have a mostly 'normal' life." It took me a while to accept that I was aro as well, but I got there eventually. I still have those spirals of doubt about my orientation, but like you said, It's really nice to meet you, and I hope you have a great time here!
  5. Hi Hannah! It's nice to meet you. I'm new here as well, and I also love reading, writing, and music. I'm glad you found this site, and I wish you the best of luck! 💚
  6. I feel the same way. My friends have been drifting apart during the pandemic, and I worry that once we can see each other again, they'll all rush back to their romantic relationships and I'll be left behind.
  7. Hello! I'm on the aro and ace spectrums, though not exactly sure where. I've been lurking on aven for a couple years, but always found it too overwhelming to actually make an account. Anyway, I'm 18 and started university this year (studying music). Meeting some of my new classmates has made me feel like an outsider, which is what drove me to look for this kind of community. It's really nice to be here, and I hope y'all are having a good day :)
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