Logan Posted November 29, 2016 Share Posted November 29, 2016 Ok I can't sleep so I'm gonna post this. I just made an account for this one post (but I might keep using this) also, sorry for any grammar mistakes, I'm kinda in a hurry to write dis. so I have to post some personal info first... ok so I'm a 13 year old female, and I've never ever felt love or had a crush. I feel like I've gone under all the changes (I'm a early bloomer) I've had my period, felt sexual desire, etc. I'm mature for my age so ye. this originally wasn't much of a concern to me... until someone at my camp started to talk about boys. "hehe how many crushes have you guys had?" "hmm maybe 3?" "around 6" then it was my turn "uhh I've never had a crush..." they all were saying something along the lines of "WHAT?! Oh I get it, you're too embarrassed" I didn't want to start an argument so I kinda just said I was too embarrassed. So as of now I've dubbed myself as an aro, but I may change. I'm still kinda iffy on calling myself that, but for now it works. I forgot to mention. I have a girlfriend. Now, earlyer this year one of my good friends confessed to having a crush on me, so one thing lead to another and we decided to try something out. She lives a little far away, so we've only hung out as girlfriends 2 times (both sleepovers). I told her that any "lovey" thing was fine with me, because I don't really view it as anything. So if she were to kiss me on the cheek, I wouldn't think anything of it really. The main reason why I'm iffy on calling myself aromantic is well... IM 13 The main point of this post was to seek advice on what to dub myself (I make it sound like I don't want to be 'dubbed' but it actually makes me more comfortable) P.S I've done lots of research on the feelings of an aro, and I agree with almost all (I'm saying almost because I haven't read EVERYTHING) thanks for your time! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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