Coby Asola Posted October 13, 2017 Share Posted October 13, 2017 So I've been out to most people in my life as ace aro for a few months now. However, I have this one friend who I'm not super close with who I'm not out to, but I really want to come out to. The issue is that I'm pretty scared to do it and I don't know how to bring it up specifically without it being very awkward. We don't talk alone much, so that complicates things. Please help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeMorgan Posted October 13, 2017 Share Posted October 13, 2017 If you wouldn't feel comfortable pulling this person aside to talk about your orientation, coming out to them might not be the best decision. Is there any particular reason you'd want them to know about this, or do you simply like to have everything out there for the world to see? This is a tricky issue around which one must lightly tread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coby Asola Posted October 13, 2017 Author Share Posted October 13, 2017 It's not really that I don't feel comfortable pulling them aside, I just don't have a time that I could easily do it. I don't really know why I want to cone out to him, but it's really important to me that I do. I'm low key confused. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeMorgan Posted October 13, 2017 Share Posted October 13, 2017 That's fine; I don't think any of us would be here if we weren't each to some degree confused. Is your friend never alone? The easiest way to get someone by himself is to wait for everybody else to drift away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Potato Posted October 13, 2017 Share Posted October 13, 2017 If you have no idea how your friend would react, just ask about their general opinion on ace aro people to get a feel for how he might react to you being ace aro. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Apathetic Echidna Posted October 13, 2017 Share Posted October 13, 2017 if you want to come out to them privately, you could choose a non-face to face medium, like text or email or private messages. But as you are out to your other friends you could just bring up your orientation to the group as a way to come out, like 'oh hey, X person doesn't know about this yet!' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zae Posted October 14, 2017 Share Posted October 14, 2017 @Ace of Amethysts actually canges her profile picture more often than I do nowadays~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Apathetic Echidna Posted October 17, 2017 Share Posted October 17, 2017 @Zae did you mean to post that here? or were your tabs playing up and you missed the arcade one Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zae Posted October 17, 2017 Share Posted October 17, 2017 14 hours ago, Apathetic Echidna said: @Zae did you mean to post that here? or were your tabs playing up and you missed the arcade one Oh, fail -.- Wrong tab for sure -.- Really Sorry ^^'' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Holmbo Posted October 29, 2017 Share Posted October 29, 2017 Perhaps if you knew why you want to come out to this person you'd be able to choose the way you most would like to do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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