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Everything posted by Zema

  1. I have no idea of the exact age that I was, but it was sometime during 2015 I think, which was when I was about 17-18. I know that when I joined these forums I was firmly identifying as aro so it was definitely at least a few months before then. It's amazing how far I've come in those past 5 years tbh. I was so far inside my own shell back then; I barely talked online at all, and I never felt like I belonged anywhere. This forum helped me feel like I belonged for the first time in my life, and also helped me realise a lot more about myself that would have taken a lot longer for me if this forum never existed.
  2. I think it's identity. I'm a masculine trans woman and I'm certainly not nonbinary. From what I've noticed, nonbinary people have a fundamentally different experience of gender to binary trans people and I do not relate to nonbinary people. That's why I think it's identity and not expression.
  3. In German I'm a big fan of the word Handshuhe. It just makes me think of shoes on hands lol. Tbh I'm a big fan of a lot of German's compound words and part of why I'm learning it. As for english words I like the word floccinaucinihilipilification just because it's so long and almost completely useless (it means "the estimation of something as worthless" if you were wondering). But as for my favourite english word it would have to be sus. It's short for suspicious, but unlike pretty much every shortened word that we aussies use, sus is actually more useful than the original because it can be used as a verb as well as an adjective.
  4. I'm completely romance neutral. I don't hate it but it's not like I have any interest in it. If a piece of media has romance in it I won't mind but I find stories that are solely romance can be boring to me.
  5. I am sex repulsed but I am not romance repulsed. So they are not inherently linked. My views on sex are basically, consenting adults can do what they want but I don't want them to do it near me. I am mostly apathetic about romance.
  6. Sounds to me like you're not actually attracted to men, and if you wanna have sex with someone who has a penis, you're better off finding a girl with one. But I'm not exactly an expert when it comes to sexual attraction so i dunno.
  7. Ok this is a shameless self-promotion, but I recently started a meme page on tumblr dedicated (mostly) to aro memes. So that there's actually some discussion, why don't people here post any aro memes that they've seen/made? I'd love to see more aro memes.
  8. I absolutely wouldn't. I like being aromantic and asexual and wouldn't want to change that one bit.
  9. Sorry, I don't check the forums very often anymore. I've edited the OP to have a valid link. But i'll post it here too: https://discord.gg/jmzNe3g
  10. Selling sinks that don't have a mixer tap, only a hot tap and a cold tap oh wait those are just british taps
  11. Simple concept, what sort of items wouold be sold at an inconvenience store? They need to be items that would still work (technically) but would be incredibly inconvenient. I'll start us off. A phone which only takes non-rechargeable batteries. A laptop with no screen. A monitor that inverts all the colours.
  12. Oh man. Now I have to comment here again.
  13. Finally someone else posted here.
  14. @Arocalypse lift. your. game.
  15. I have yet to see ace and aro exclusionists within the queer community produce an argument which isn't a logical fallacy or based on false information. That doesn't stop these people from spewing their bullshit rhetoric. It isn't even original either. Most of it is recylced biphobia and TERF rhetoric.
  16. I'd just like to add that people in the queer community need to stop saying that the split attraction model is homophobic. It's just so blatantly manipulation to try and convince people that aros and aces are the bad guys.
  17. Yeah that looks like it could have been taken by me.
  18. I know for a fact that I didn't take that screenshot. Unless you meant that you took that screenshot in which case I isunderstood you.
  19. I just realised that now I technically fit under the 20-25 option, but also the 15-20 option. Does this mean I should revote??????
  20. by pretending to be them. how else would i do it? omg i just noticed you quoted me in your signature with my typo y u do dis to me
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