Orientation crisis

[CatNap]

I'm really tired rn, so I'm going to make this short.

-I've dated multiple genders, most of which I haven't felt anything for

-I've fallen in love with girl, and a nonbinary person who is masculine aligned

-Crushes on girls, a demigirl, that masculine aligned person, and idk if that's it or not

-I do not relate to the term lesbian

-The labels pan and biromantic don't fit me at all/feel right and frustrated me

I think that's all I can remember rn. Again tired cutting it short.

[nonmerci]

Maybe you can investigate why you don't relate to these terms and it will gove you clues on what terms you could relate to?

 

Edited June 2, 2023 by nonmerci

[CatNap]

I don't really relate to the terms, because I feel they just don't fit me.

[Jot-Aro Kujo]

You don’t need to use a label if they don’t feel right. You’ll probably figure it out eventually one way or another. 

[Picklethewickle]

Maybe instead of trying to categorize the people you have dated in order to find a label, just let yourself date whoever you like.

[Celandine]

This might not be what you’re looking for, but there is actually a label for not connecting to or fitting “conventional” sexuality labels: pomosexual. I don’t know whether this will be helpful to you but it seemed to cover some of the ideas that you mentioned.

https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Pomosexual

Regardless, remember that you don’t need to stress about labelling yourself, and you don’t need to label yourself at all if you don’t want to. Just being yourself is enough :)

[illumi]

simply iding as queer is cool too. u dont need a label if u dont think anything fits