Needlemouse Posted June 2, 2023 Share Posted June 2, 2023 I'm really tired rn, so I'm going to make this short. -I've dated multiple genders, most of which I haven't felt anything for -I've fallen in love with girl, and a nonbinary person who is masculine aligned -Crushes on girls, a demigirl, that masculine aligned person, and idk if that's it or not -I do not relate to the term lesbian -The labels pan and biromantic don't fit me at all/feel right and frustrated me I think that's all I can remember rn. Again tired cutting it short. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nonmerci Posted June 2, 2023 Share Posted June 2, 2023 (edited) Maybe you can investigate why you don't relate to these terms and it will gove you clues on what terms you could relate to? Edited June 2, 2023 by nonmerci Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Needlemouse Posted June 2, 2023 Author Share Posted June 2, 2023 I don't really relate to the terms, because I feel they just don't fit me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jot-Aro Kujo Posted June 2, 2023 Share Posted June 2, 2023 You don’t need to use a label if they don’t feel right. You’ll probably figure it out eventually one way or another. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Picklethewickle Posted June 3, 2023 Share Posted June 3, 2023 Maybe instead of trying to categorize the people you have dated in order to find a label, just let yourself date whoever you like. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Celandine Posted June 3, 2023 Share Posted June 3, 2023 This might not be what you’re looking for, but there is actually a label for not connecting to or fitting “conventional” sexuality labels: pomosexual. I don’t know whether this will be helpful to you but it seemed to cover some of the ideas that you mentioned. https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Pomosexual Regardless, remember that you don’t need to stress about labelling yourself, and you don’t need to label yourself at all if you don’t want to. Just being yourself is enough :) 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
S-Hawk Posted June 4, 2023 Share Posted June 4, 2023 simply iding as queer is cool too. u dont need a label if u dont think anything fits Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tiger_hoods12 Posted Saturday at 08:16 PM Share Posted Saturday at 08:16 PM (edited) You could just label yourself as unlabeled. Which I know sounds ironic, but there is technically an orientation in the queer community called this. It’s pretty self explanatory and matches what you could be feeling. There no need to label yourself and you shouldn’t have to feel pressured to do so. Just date who you want to date. I know this is over a year old, so you’ve probably already settled with some kind of term or not. I’m mostly just saying this for anyone else who reads this and feels the same way. 👍🏾 Edited Monday at 03:56 PM by tiger_hoods12 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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