Guest Posted May 28, 2023 Share Posted May 28, 2023 This is really embarrassing to talk about so please don't make fun of me. So, I've been under the asexual label for quite a while and lately I've been having doubts about it. I watch porn sometimes and I don't find myself attracted to the people but rather the act. Am I still ace??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
illumi Posted May 28, 2023 Share Posted May 28, 2023 yes. sexual attraction is when u wish to sexually engage or be sexually intimate w a specific individual and since ure only attracted to the act but not ppl ure still acespec; many acespecs have a libido too so if that clears up anything 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SwiftySpeedy Posted May 28, 2023 Share Posted May 28, 2023 15 minutes ago, LIVI0 said: yes. sexual attraction is when u wish to sexually engage or be sexually intimate w a specific individual and since ure only attracted to the act but not ppl ure still acespec; many acespecs have a libido too so if that clears up anything Wait what is it called when someone lacks libido. Is there a microlabel for that. All I know is I'm sex repulsed. Is that the microlabel I'm kind of confused. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
illumi Posted May 28, 2023 Share Posted May 28, 2023 17 minutes ago, SwiftySpeedy said: Wait what is it called when someone lacks libido. Is there a microlabel for that. All I know is I'm sex repulsed. Is that the microlabel I'm kind of confused. dont think so as far as i remember. u can read thru this list of acespec id and maybe ull find it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jot-Aro Kujo Posted May 28, 2023 Share Posted May 28, 2023 21 minutes ago, SwiftySpeedy said: Wait what is it called when someone lacks libido. Is there a microlabel for that. All I know is I'm sex repulsed. Is that the microlabel I'm kind of confused. That’s just a low sex drive. I mean maybe there’s a label for it, but like… It varies from person to person even for allosexuals, and plenty of people don’t really have much of a sex drive until like, their 20s. It’s really not something anyone needs to worry about, especially when you’re young. Of course, if you find it helpful to use such a label, all the power to you. But I feel like society these days pushes people (especially kids!) to constantly overthink and compartmentalize everything about their relationship to sex, which I don’t think is really healthy. It doesn’t have to be a big deal. You don’t need to think about sex if you don’t want to, and how you feel about it doesn’t need to be anyone’s business but your own. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nonmerci Posted June 1, 2023 Share Posted June 1, 2023 On 5/28/2023 at 3:33 AM, SwiftySpeedy said: Wait what is it called when someone lacks I've seen non-libidoist. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeltaAro Posted June 11, 2023 Share Posted June 11, 2023 On 5/28/2023 at 2:48 AM, Cal said: I watch porn sometimes and I don't find myself attracted to the people but rather the act. The micro-label for this would be bellussexual. Disclaimer: I'm really not much into those labels, so I'm not that experienced in those things. I just looked it up for you. On 5/28/2023 at 2:48 AM, Cal said: Am I still ace??? Ace also means ace-spec, therefore it's not necessary to be totally uninterested in sex to be ace in this sense (for example, like greyasexuals). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheApothiAroace Posted June 14, 2023 Share Posted June 14, 2023 On 5/27/2023 at 5:48 PM, TwinkieMcdinkie said: This is really embarrassing to talk about so please don't make fun of me. So, I've been under the asexual label for quite a while and lately I've been having doubts about it. I watch porn sometimes and I don't find myself attracted to the people but rather the act. Am I still ace??? There are plenty of people just like you who enjoy watching/readings things about ‘the action’ that are still ace! Just because you might watch that kind of stuff doesn’t mean you aren’t ace, being ace just means you don’t feel that kind of attraction towards other people! Your still ace so don’t worry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HelloThere Posted June 20, 2023 Share Posted June 20, 2023 On 5/27/2023 at 9:33 PM, SwiftySpeedy said: Wait what is it called when someone lacks libido. Is there a microlabel for that. All I know is I'm sex repulsed. Is that the microlabel I'm kind of confused. I think it’s just low libido, it’s not necessarily a requirement to not have libido but generally attraction to the act but no specific person is more aegosexual. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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