Procrastinating Posted January 17 Share Posted January 17 Hello, I am currently questioning my gender. Idk what I am, but I do know I really like when people use they/them pronouns for me. If I realize I'm cis, would it be weird for me to go by exclusively they/them pronouns? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hemogoblin Posted January 17 Share Posted January 17 (edited) In a general sense: not at all. In a societal sense: regardless of how you identity, people are going to give you guff for going against whatever expected norm, unfortunately. Edited January 17 by hemogoblin 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
illumi Posted January 17 Share Posted January 17 no 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atypique Posted January 17 Share Posted January 17 Pronouns are pronouns. Just do whatever makes you feel the best ! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harvest-Unity Posted March 11 Share Posted March 11 Taking the literal definition of 'weird' in the sense its statistically not common then yes, it is weird. But weird is not inherently bad! Lots of people are PNC (stands for pronoun-nonconforming, meaning a person uses pronouns not traditionally assosiated with their gender) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whirl Posted March 13 Share Posted March 13 On 3/10/2023 at 7:34 PM, Harvest said: Lots of people are PNC (stands for pronoun-nonconforming, meaning a person uses pronouns not traditionally assosiated with their gender) I didn't know this term existed! I've been going by all pronouns for a while with some very close friends of mine, but personally (for now at least lol) I still idenitfy with my sex assigned at birth. I'm still figuring things out, so I'm not really tying myself down, but in my mind I just call myself a woman without a pronoun preference. :D And well, my take is that it's okay. pronoun ≠ gender. explore what feels right! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PumpkinsLinked Posted April 1 Share Posted April 1 Nonono!! It wouldn't be weird at all!!! if you Identify as cis but you wanna use different pronouns that's 100% fine!!! Pronouns don't equal your identity, and it's your job to choose what makes you comfortable!! Do whatever makes you happy. :] I wish you luck on your journey!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lunar Posted April 25 Share Posted April 25 It's not weird! Use the pronouns you like! There are guys who use she/her, they/them, and neopronouns, girls who use he/him, they/them, and neopronouns, and Non-binary people who use binary pronouns. It's not weird at all. Just be yourself, and do what makes you comfortable and happy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AromanticAardvark Posted April 25 Share Posted April 25 Not at all, pronouns don't have to correlate with gender! Although I would be prepared for how people around you might respond Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John069 Posted April 28 Share Posted April 28 No, why would that be weird? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Newest Fabled Creature Posted June 7 Share Posted June 7 I know people far older than me and more seniored in using non-conforming pronouns, and they're cis! So, it wouldn't be weird if you wanted to use they/them pronouns. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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