Ted guy Posted November 13, 2022 Share Posted November 13, 2022 (edited) When I feel attraction, it can only be explained by metaphors/images. It's incredibly complicated. ----------------------- It's like going to an art show as entertainment. You walk by interesting paintings, but you don't think much of them. Then all of a sudden, you find a piece of art that blows your mind!!! You think to yourself "Wow! This is amazing. Who created this? I would love to get to know them. Maybe I could see more of their work. After a while though (say 6 months of returning to art show), you get really tired of looking at that same picture over and over though. The initial feeling doesn't last. Plus you have no use for it in your house You decide to move on and find something else. ----------------------- That's how I feel in my life. I know a pair of sisters that their looks blow me away. I can't stop looking at them. But it doesn't mean I want them. A good simile could be "I'm like a fan". However, I do have a couple sexual fetishes, which is critical for my marriage survival. If it wasn't for the fetishes, I would find it incredibly hard to feel attraction at all. But that's a totally different story. Edited November 13, 2022 by Ted guy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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