dragkars Posted May 6 Share Posted May 6 Hey, I'm new. My name is Judah, I go by He/Him and i'm a guy. I discovered this place when I was stalking the aro page LGBTA fandom and looked at some of the sources and it linked here lmao. I recently found out I was aro (less than a week ago) and had to tell my boyfriend who I was dating for 2 years. If I'm being honest I don't really like being aro mainly because I've felt romantic attraction before and I don't anymore & I just wish I could have that kind of relationship again and actually feel something yk. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sili Posted May 6 Share Posted May 6 Hi Judah, welcome to the forum. I dont think theres anything saying you wont feel romantic attraction again, but at the same time I think your situation is not that unusual. Its rough that you had to tell your boyfriend like that though. I hope you enjoy your stay, and we can help you some. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jjaee_jaee Posted May 6 Share Posted May 6 (edited) hi! welcome to the forum! i'm also somewhat new to being arospec, i go by he/him as well. telling your boyfriend must've been tricky, i hope it went well for you both! it's tricky being aro, especially when you used to experience romantic attraction because it's such a big change! what aspects of your previous relationship do you want to have again, if you are happy to talk about it? (^^) your romantic attraction may change over time, and i believe that quite a few people on here have been through the same thing, if that's comforting! happy to help anytime! Edited May 6 by jjaee_jaee 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roboticanary Posted May 6 Share Posted May 6 Hi Judah, hope this place is useful to you 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alto Posted May 6 Share Posted May 6 Welcome! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
merlindfluorite Posted May 21 Share Posted May 21 Welcome! There's all sorts of types of love & ways to feel love, so maybe what you're looking for you will find again! Lots of flux folk on here, arospec people are very supportive 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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