GhostyPeppers Posted July 30, 2020 Share Posted July 30, 2020 Hey! My name is Lucas, but you can simply call me Ghosty! (He/they) I have recently been identifying as aromantic (possibly freyromantic) after trying to force myself into a typical alloromantic lifestyle. I have been in 4 romantic relationships before I realized what the problem was; I didn't actually feel romantically attracted to them. It was either sexual or sensual attraction I was experiencing, sometimes I think it might have been a really strong platonic attraction. Whatever those feelings were does not matter now. I have broken many hearts due to either a confusion of feelings or the loss of actual attraction in general. I don't know what else to talk about, but if anybody has any questions about my personal experiences, I would be more than happy to answer. I just need to be in an accepting community because everybody I know is allo in some shape or form, which isn't bad, but it can feel isolating sometimes. Oh, besides the aro stuff, I also do a lot of art. I still like shipping fictional characters as much as the next guy. IRL romance just does not mix with me. I hope I did the introduction correctly? 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queasy_Attention Posted July 30, 2020 Share Posted July 30, 2020 Ayyy welcome to the club Ghosty! I'm right there with you on so many points-- confusing platonic/sensual/physical attraction with romantic attraction, having some nasty breakups/loss of friends as a result, wanting to be around other people who Get It, and also liking romance in media! Hope to see you around the forums 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neir Posted July 30, 2020 Share Posted July 30, 2020 Hi and welcome! There's no particular format for intros so whatever you want is good. I'm glad you're here to find some well-needed community. Come join us with some aro ice cream: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GhostyPeppers Posted July 30, 2020 Author Share Posted July 30, 2020 31 minutes ago, Neir said: Hi and welcome! There's no particular format for intros so whatever you want is good. I'm glad you're here to find some well-needed community. Come join us with some aro ice cream: Thank you!! :0 It looks delicious 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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