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Untamed Heart

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  1. I think I'd like a T shirt with a Koi carp on it, for... akoiromancy *bdum-tish* xD it can have all the lith flag colours, too, since Koi carps are usually pretty colourful anyway. But it probably would be a bit too obscure for others to recognise, unless the design had very obvious elements worked in. I think it would look nice on a lot of different coloured shirts (black, purple etc)

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  2. I'm only out to about 4 people - my ex, two friends and my sister in law. My best friend accepted it, but don't think she really gets it. I kind of want to tell my mum, but I probably won't. She does know about a few of my boyfriends, including my ex, but when I was with him and I tried to discuss my 'off' feelings with her she said the stuff I'd been looking at online was making me think I didn't like him, or that my best friend (who is friends with both of us and she knew that) was trying to influence me. When really, the stuff I'd been looking at was actually me trying to find out why I felt so bad being with him.

    Finding out I was lith wouldn't have helped us anyway, but the stuff I was finding was giving me false hope that it would work out.

    I do love my mum but she would totally get the wrong idea. "Why did you get/stay with him?" "You can't dislike romance, you've had boyfriends!" (I could be wrong about her reaction, but I don't think she would understand).

  3. Your art block goes away, but you're left not being able to keep up with all your great new ideas and you end up forgetting a few you really wanted to do when you came up with them (speaking from experience).

     

    I wish you could tell quiet, but insistent inner voices to go suck a lemon (specifically, the voice that tries to say "you wouldn't mind having another go at dating...").

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  4. I kept putting my discomfort with being in relationships down to a few different things - lack of experience, wrong guy, Asperger's, etc. I'm fine with unrequited infatuations or crushes, even if I feel I really want to be with the other person (I have tried to make it happen a few times), but when I have got with someone it's always felt the same. Crippling anxiety, depression, panic attacks, berating myself for feeling so awful and confused about being with such a nice person (well, this most recent relationship at least). For some reason I just thought this was "normal for some" as people didn't think it was odd for me to feel this way, but I think they misunderstood me entirely. Yes, romance and crush feelings fade, but shouldn't that be gradual as you adjust over months or years, rather than being on some roller coaster and the brakes get slammed on after the first hill?

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  5. On 5/21/2016 at 2:17 PM, RedNeko said:
    On 8/25/2016 at 7:33 AM, LJ_84 said:

    What the hell is a celebrity crush?! I'm a huge HIM fan and when I was young everybody thought I had a crush on Ville. Like no? I don't have romantic fantasies? I just wanna talk with him about poetry and our favourite writers

    I feel the same way about most celebs I like in general (but I also happen to quite like HIM), especially Johnny Depp.

    Also sorry this quote thing got somewhat messed up. DX 

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