Samu

Hello, I’m new on the site and I saw your status. I just wanted to tell you that you can write me if you need to talk. I was also not out about my gender expression and identity I was so scared to even consider I was non-binary or gender fluid. This year I finally told one of my friends and she was kind and understanding she is the first person to ever ask me what pronouns I preferred and it was liberating. What I mean to say is that it gets better, everyone has their own process and we have to respect ourselves too. Coming out is hard and you can get bad reactions from people but I assure you you will also get positive and supportive ones and those are the ones that matter. Don’t give up!

You’re gender crisis sounds remarkably similar to my own. I remember having  similar thoughts.  

What would you consider as an androgynous look, im just curious… 

@Max_Ali@IkarusI’m sorry for the late reply. Both of your answers are very much appreciated.

Some time has passed and I’m already out to some people in my life as a transmasc non binary person, and as you said Max, it is very liberating. I was lucky people around me were pretty understanding about it from the beginning, that made it easier for me to truly be myself. It does get better :)

Regarding your question, Ikarus, for me, looking androgynous is being perceived as both a man and a woman at the same time (somehow). Like when people are confused and they cannot tell what my gender is.