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I am trying to define what a queerplatonic relationship is for me, since I recently got attached to someone. Let me give some context. So this person is my classmate. Since the moment I saw them I felt a strong aesthetic attraction, and I thought it would be nice if we could share some affection and company. Apparently, they felt the same towards me, and when we both admitted this we kind of began having a "special" relationship. We kissed, did some stuff over the phone and talked about sex. We were open to it whether we were friends or partners, let's say. They were also very kind to me and I got attached due to all of this. The thing is that I don't think what I felt was romantic. I liked this person and I enjoyed their company, but I don't know. I still don't understand what romantic attraction is to be honest. What I can say is that I didn't really want the commitment of those typical romantic relationships. I just wanted company and intimacy, someone who I can be with this way (and someone who would reciprocate my efforts and all). But I feel that this kind of relationships (a little bit similar to FWB for the allos I've talked to) end up in a bad way if one of the involved get attached to the other. It's complicated and my thoughts have been messy. That's why I would like to hear how you define your queerplatonic relationships :)
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True, mostly after university on Friday nights. TPBM likes writing poetry
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I have been having gender crisis these days and I link my gender expression with gender identity so much that it gets very very confusing. I also want people to perceive me either as a boy or in an androgynous way and I am kinda desperate for them to use he/him pronouns on me, but I’m not out to anyone irl yet :(
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Hello, I’m new on the site and I saw your status. I just wanted to tell you that you can write me if you need to talk. I was also not out about my gender expression and identity I was so scared to even consider I was non-binary or gender fluid. This year I finally told one of my friends and she was kind and understanding she is the first person to ever ask me what pronouns I preferred and it was liberating. What I mean to say is that it gets better, everyone has their own process and we have to respect ourselves too. Coming out is hard and you can get bad reactions from people but I assure you you will also get positive and supportive ones and those are the ones that matter. Don’t give up!
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@Max_Ali@IkarusI’m sorry for the late reply. Both of your answers are very much appreciated.
Some time has passed and I’m already out to some people in my life as a transmasc non binary person, and as you said Max, it is very liberating. I was lucky people around me were pretty understanding about it from the beginning, that made it easier for me to truly be myself. It does get better :)
Regarding your question, Ikarus, for me, looking androgynous is being perceived as both a man and a woman at the same time (somehow). Like when people are confused and they cannot tell what my gender is.
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I’m not sure, I haven’t gotten a diagnose yet. TPBM has the most fun times alone by themselves.
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I’m offended because you’re offended by coco not being offended
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Woahhh, I’ve met someone not long ago, but I already feel so aesthetically and emotionally attracted to them. This person is just so cool and awesome and I’d like us to have a QPR.
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Is there anything you are hoping to get for christmas?
Samu replied to roboticanary's topic in Off Topic
I want to get a gaming chair so badly, even tho I play more on my iPad than my computer. I would also like to get more clothes that would help me with my gender expression. I get so much joy by wearing certain types of clothing and I cannot wait to see myself in more of it. -
My fav genres currently are k-pop, alt rock, sometimes r&b and j-pop! I also enjoy bachata and reggaetón other times. :)
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Greetings newcomer~ hope you enjoy your stay :)
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