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welcome!

This actually isn't a useless thread to me at all, as I am interested in VanLife.

I have autism.

big time aesthetic attraction to my second ex, who turned out to be crappy.

I wear black whenever possible.  Black pants, black t-shirt.  That's me.  And that's as close as I come to dressing Goth.  Oh, and Tactical boots.  Always Tactical boots.  Usually some kind of accessory too, either a headscarf or cat ears.  I am a therian.

I can be kind of emotionless too.  Psych meds + autism does a pretty good job at flattening me out.  However, I generally find I have enough emotion to make life difficult interesting.  I used to worry a lot about my apathy, like you, and wondered whether it was due to some kind of trauma.  However, after a while, I just got on with things I guess.  Not saying that's what you should do.  But that's what happened with me.

I find socializing a lot helps (if you are into that).  Listening to music helps too.  So does making music, writing, and making art.  Those things all help me feel more, I think.  Might work for you, might not.

For me, open-mouth lip-kissing is what makes a relationship romantic, and me not liking is a lot of what makes me aromantic.

hey!

Why do people thirst for it so much???

4 hours ago, TheApothiAroace said:

In California it gets kinda hot in other seasons and I love nighttime and cold, so I would have to say winter.

I feel similar.  But only when I'm in SoCal.  When I'm in NorCal, I prefer Spring because the longer days make life more convenient.

Well, I mean, I'm aroace, but I definitely prefer men for friendships and QPRs.  I don't really why this bias exists, though.  Hypothetically, I should be pan.  But I'm not.

It's been two years now and I'm still not 100% sure.  I'm 90% sure, though.  Or maybe even 99% sure.  It's just...I do see myself in a QPR someday.  I know that doesn't make me any less aromantic, but I know that people will interpret it as a romantic match...especially since I want my partner to be male.

6 minutes ago, Queerdo said:

There's at least some analysis that while anti-trans politics plays well in Republican primaries, it doesn't play as well in many general elections.

Let's hope that's true.

I'm offended you used a double negative.  Why contribute to all the negativity in the world?

Uh, I was talking to someone with autism who ID'd as aro ace.  His caretaker was nearby and the moment our conversation turned to that she told us to change the subject :/

That is the story behind the Aro in the Airport.

thank you!

I have an aroace hoodie :D 

I met an aroace in the airport once

Yes!  But I have too many tunes I love to pick a few.  Can we listen to some ones I've sang?

TPBM, can we go to a drag show together?

I'm offended by the watermelon in your profile pic.

32 minutes ago, HelloThere said:

Sorry, it’s just more common in america to see Christian priests, we really need more religious diversity here. 

We have many great female UU ministers :) 

Most people I've told are ok with it.  I have run into a few jerks...but they are few and far between.

The people I've dated (especially the women) have been a different story.

Good to meet you, Jonah!

Mens clothes are always good if you are AFAB.

thank you!  :D