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Spot on @Balfrog

I wonder a lot of things about myself that are total nonsense, so personally i wouldnt call that 'a sign'.

but maybe if this is something you are considering its worth at least looking into it a bit more, at the very least to answer the question 'why do i think this might fit me'.

could be worth asking yourself why you wonder if you are arospec, what about your history/what about your current life suggests that, then you can see if those ideas stack up with what you are reading.

movie

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a selcetion of some absolutely cracking book titles

smarm

On 8/28/2023 at 2:46 PM, kbby said:

All questions are anonymous!!! Ask away about anything college-related (social, academic, personal, tea, etc.) 

not sure what you mean by this.

the only forum that allows for anonymous questions is anonymous Q&A

I suppose it could be in the sense we only know your username but that is true for the whole site

Welcome!

also, good omens

love that, i reckon you'll fit in well here

Hi!

Quotes from a former workplace:

'hang on, you're talking about the real problem, not the one we made up'

'I'm fed up with HR. I want the badger resources department instead'

'The length of it is a bit of a problem'

nice.

as for topic nothing much on my in particular but there are a couple of topics on the old ideas doc that i think might be interesting

Intersection with gender identity

Intersection with relationship anarchy
What aro resources do we need? 

any of those would be interesting to me. the last one probably is the one i have more to say than others but perhaps try to stick one of these subjects in over the next few months.

Hi

welcome back!

very good stickers. Well done

52 minutes ago, DeltaAro said:

also don't get the joke. What did I miss?

I don't either, but I presume its something

Hi

Welcome

Hi

Sharing your drawings would be lovely. In fact we have a really nice art thread where a lot of people have shared things before.

sorry, no

I am very very lazy and am not doing anything for a day no matter how funny it is.

also just doesnt seem right to make navigating the forum somewhat dependent on getting a sort of in joke you only understand through reading the forum. Fair enough for proposing it but I wont be doing things like that.

Hi!

Hope you like it here

"funky barn is not the greatest" 

yum

egg fried rice

On 8/7/2023 at 6:04 AM, Guest Rebekah said:

What age do you think you can confidently identify as aroace without there being to much of a likelihood that it’ll change in the future?

Some people will have a fairly substantial change in their identity well into middle age. Some people will be assured in who they are and what they want from a very young age.

Sure, being comfortable in an identity for longer probably makes it more likely you will be like that for life, but that likelihood depends on you. What your experience is.

Its perhaps not a clean numerical answer that you would like to hear, but you can identify confidently in something when you are confident. 

For now, if you arent confident, just keep chilling, keep living your life and try out experiences you are comfortable with, refuse what you arent and eithe that confidence will slowly  build up or you will change your ideas of identity. Either is great.

spring

that's lovely

Im pretty good at maths, I can code half decently and can write formally to a good standard so other people can (fingers crossed) understand what on earth I am talking about.