LeGens Posted May 5 Share Posted May 5 I am still in the closet and all of my friends are allo. Through most of High School, it was not a problem to just, not date. I did not even know I was aro at the time. I just thought that I simply was not into romance and that, one day, I would be. But it never happened. I am still single and I am not only not interested in a relationship, but I never felt this kind of attraction and I doubt I will ever feel it. All my friends are still looking for a relationship and, even if most of them don't really ask about my situation, some do. It's hard to just exist next to them when all they talk about his their future with their partner or every time they ask me 'Do you find anyone cute?' or when they say 'You'll find someone'. I understand there sentiment, but I also know that they would not understand if I ever came out. It also makes me feel kind of lonely... even if I cannot see myself in a relationship, the fact that romance is seen as an obligated part of life makes it even harder to imagine how my futur will be... Anyway, sorry for the vent. It's getting late where I am right now. I was just wondering: what do you guys usually do when you feel this type of pressure regarding your friends and family? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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