Embrace change or...

[PlatonicSmash81]

Or embrace reality?

 

Someone said this to me just recently... "Live life, embrace the change"

I appreciated the support in this message, it was genuine.  But inside, it isn't a change.  It's who I been a VERY long time, but had no idea what it was.  So to me.  I am not changing.  I am being realistic.  Real with who I am.  

 

What do ya'll think about this? 

 

[A User]

i think it's more of a reality that you didn't really have the words to describe

i do embrace change in my daily life as a whole, but is my aroace identity a change?

 

i mean, personally, it's a very mixed question, because i feel like a lot has changed since i discovered my labels, but the labels were kinda meant to be, so it's a bit realistic?

i think for most the maximum that could change is probably the outlook on life, but that's basically it

[roboticanary]

Sounds about right. I think of being aro as something that I always was and I just hadn't found the word.

As much as I like the idea of embracing change it seems a bit odd if not that much actually changed after I discovered aromanticism.