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PlatonicSmash81

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About PlatonicSmash81

  • Birthday March 26

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  • Name
    Tommy/Thomas
  • Orientation
    Aromantic-Polysexual/Introverted-Extrovert (Yeah I am confused also, but it works for me!)
  • Gender
    Male/Human
  • Pronouns
    He, Him, They, Them, Unicorn
  • Location
    Lancaster Pennsylvania
  • Occupation
    Waking up and Paying Taxes

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  1. Or embrace reality? Someone said this to me just recently... "Live life, embrace the change" I appreciated the support in this message, it was genuine. But inside, it isn't a change. It's who I been a VERY long time, but had no idea what it was. So to me. I am not changing. I am being realistic. Real with who I am. What do ya'll think about this?
  2. This got a smile from me :) Me too, they were very honored with my request. It will be probably a month or so before they are finished, with school, work and also they have some commissions to complete. But Dad gets art for free :)
  3. The picture currently is borrowed, therefore I made sure I used one that had the watermark in it. BUT my daughter, they are an artist and I am having her draw me up something of this nature, and it will be replaced with that one. My kid, they are in art college currently. Thank you for the welcome! I am hoping to find the support and all that stuff here! I might be 41 but I am not done searching!
  4. Hello! 41 year old dude here joining in on the community. Not many people are like me in real life out here. Sometimes I feel like a unicorn. Nice to met all ya fellow Aro's! Just a little about me, I recently discovered I am a Poly-Aro-Sexual through therapy. I can date, I can have fun, but as soon as the romance hits, and it goes from a platonic understand and fun, I become a shell of myself. A lot of history but its nice to finally figure out I am not a bad dude, I was just in the wrong situations. I currently have a gay platonic soulmate in my life, and she is wonderful. Also my daughter is in transition, stealing all my old spice! So yeah, I am an old head from the new gen. Who wants to platonically laugh and cry with me? :D
  5. this coming from the word instructions just tickled me! everytime i buy something that has horrible instructions, i call them ikea instructions... hahaha!
  6. Just found out. Have a bi friend who is also my platonic soulmate. She was telling me about only feeling romantic with women and not men, even though we have had sex. So I had 100 questions and I started to feel really stupid at 41 years old not understanding what the difference was. So after some therapy and soul searching I did a lot of reflecting over past relationships. My entire life I thought the platonic love was what romance was supposed to be. Now I get why I failed at relationships as soon as it turned from platonic to romantic. I just thought I was not a normal dude. I never crushed, never did flings. And the feeling in your stomach when romance arises. Feels like swallowing nails. I sometimes feel guilty and want to call my exes to apologize for wasting their time.
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