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I'm super excited to be here! I found out the forum exists because it was listed on the aro census and I had to come check it out!

A bit about myself:

Tbh the usual way I ID myself is just queer, because anything else turns into a whole conversation. I am on the aro spectrum, and that's about as specific a label as I can give. I'm not sure whether I want a romantic relationship or qpr because I'm not really sure what counts as romantic? Even if what I feel *is* romantic, it's something that occurs so rarely that I would still call myself grayro. I tend to be interested in women and enbies more, so I sometimes ID as gay depending on the context. (Although I'm agender too so it's not precisely accurate on any level.) I'm definitely ace.

I studied linguistics in university, with a focus on sign languages, and after that I did Peace Corps. Got evacuated from that right at the end of my service because of covid so now I'm in the US teaching English online until normal life starts up again. 

My hobbies are: Learning about languages, talking about languages, generally nerding out about languages. Lurking on tumblr. Writing queerplatonic Venom fanfic on ao3 (I'm sajastar there too).

Favorite TV show: Elementary. It's not a perfect show but the characters are so aro and their relationship is basically a qpr even if they don't label it that way and it makes me very very happy.

Favorite movie: It's different every few months probably but atm it's Knives Out. I do love mysteries.

Favorite book: Maybe The Truth by Terry Pratchett? It is a toss-up between several of his books really.

Also I'm ADHD and I love to chat about ADHDer life! (You may have heard of "triple A": agender, aromantic, asexual--I'm quadruple A :P).

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5 hours ago, sajastar said:

Also I'm ADHD and I love to chat about ADHDer life! (You may have heard of "triple A": agender, aromantic, asexual--I'm quadruple A :P).

Yeeees, collect all the A's... together we shall rule the world! *ahem* Err, welcome to the forum from another quad-A.

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