hyakinthos Posted April 11, 2016 Share Posted April 11, 2016 hey. milo here. i know for sure that i'm somewhere on the aromantic spectrum, i can't possibly rule that out, but i don't really know where i fall on that spectrum. see here, the thing is, i just don't understand whether or not i've had any real crushes in the past. there have been times when i've been attracted to people, but in retrospect it's been sexual attraction, or i've had something that was probably a real crush but balked at the idea of entering a relationship. i have been in a relationship once before, and although i did not dislike the person, i felt horrified, trapped, and ashamed the entire time. because of these factors, i identified comfortably as exclusively aro for a while... but recently, i developed what i'm fairly certain was a crush on somebody (i can't be sure, the concept thereof has always been a little elusive to me) and i even went on a date with them. but after that, my interest in them has begun to fade... can anyone offer some insight as to where i might place myself? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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