snapesonalane Posted May 21, 2018 Share Posted May 21, 2018 Hi! You can call me Val! I'm 23, in college and super happy I discovered these forums! So for a couple of weeks I had been deliberating over my romantic orientation because that shit is complicated. I knew I was ace but I had never thought I was aromantic because I thought I had had crushes before. I found myself wishing I could just put on a helmet device that would tell me what I am, very YA dystopian of me. But unfortunately my brain had to figure all that complicated shit out on its own because I didn't know this site was a thing. But anyways eventually I arrived to the conclusion that I'm probably aromantic (and all those things I used to think of as crushes? They were probably squishes heh). I saw on the list of romantic orientations one that seemed comfortable for me: alterous! I've never thought of being in a relationship with a woman so I'm probably androalterous but I like the flexibility alterous seems to grant me! Anyways I'm happy I'm here now and ready to meet people who feel similar! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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