Well, I thought I figured out that I was basically Quasi-Hypo-Panromantic because my crushes didn't really fit the idea of romance, but I recently saw the wiki definitions of crushes and squishes, and it looked like they fit squishes instead of crushes. This means I'm probably aro, even though I've been hoping I'm not. I know lots of aros who are happy to be aro, but I don't see myself as being one of them because the chances of finding a qpr aren't great and it would feel unfair to be in a romantic relationship if I don't feel any desire for the romance. I guess one thing that would be helpful to me as someone who has never really tried to get in a romantic relationship, though I thought it was because of my age, is what do you imagine yourself doing with squishes vs crushes? We all have these imaginary scenarios in our heads, so maybe I should look at what goes inside my head rather than the very different feelings everyone has and what they do with them. Thanks for reading, and any responses would be helpful! Thank you! Merci! Gracias! Arigato! Danke! Etc.
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Well, I thought I figured out that I was basically Quasi-Hypo-Panromantic because my crushes didn't really fit the idea of romance, but I recently saw the wiki definitions of crushes and squishes, and it looked like they fit squishes instead of crushes. This means I'm probably aro, even though I've been hoping I'm not. I know lots of aros who are happy to be aro, but I don't see myself as being one of them because the chances of finding a qpr aren't great and it would feel unfair to be in a romantic relationship if I don't feel any desire for the romance. I guess one thing that would be helpful to me as someone who has never really tried to get in a romantic relationship, though I thought it was because of my age, is what do you imagine yourself doing with squishes vs crushes? We all have these imaginary scenarios in our heads, so maybe I should look at what goes inside my head rather than the very different feelings everyone has and what they do with them. Thanks for reading, and any responses would be helpful! Thank you! Merci! Gracias! Arigato! Danke! Etc.
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