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lovecook

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  1. holy shit i never heard of this now i want to watch it but live action is bit iffy for me to watch idk
  2. yes. its called cupioromantic
  3. fair. i have a few yrs before uni. ive already figured out what route i was gon take it just depends on what specific field i want to be a major at
  4. im the go w the flow type of person and im not really good at planning and making decisions for distant future in the 1st place. arrange a meeting on the same day; ok no problem [probably]. but if u asked me which uni or college i want to take i simply wont have an answer; i havent thought that far yet. i live in the present and i deal w wtv that run into me the best i can its just how i roll w life
  5. living w my closest friend/partner but not sharing a bed; plus pets if i can
  6. there is no line. im not going to categorize any typical activities one does in certain relationships anymore; ill just chop them up into parts im comfy w and parts im not. the context still matters tho; only platonic and nothing else. but i will prohibit any activities that makes me uncomfy no matter what context theyre typically performed in
  7. tbh i would love to be an omnipotent high dimensional being that has no form; im everywhere but nowhere simultaneously and i can see every possibilities each parallel universes present. my existence is purely abstract and encompass infinity to the point of complete incomprehension basically mc spectator mode but on an universal scale
  8. indeed. romantic relationships seems tedious; having to give ur partner all ur attention and affection to the point ure starting to neglect ur friends; family & other bonds uve formed
  9. this. for some reason i never get sick from hearing it
  10. speaking of frogs; glass frogs can hide their blood by redirecting em into its liver where its hidden [link here] have a pic of these lil guys too
  11. also this cmon. agi dont even look good. not half as good as the pieces human artists create
  12. thats really yikes. i dont understand why friends ignore others right after a rejection as tho it meant everything to em even if it costs their friendship. well; i had friends confess to me before but we still ended up being friends bc they all know im aro; they just felt like telling me this while knowing ill certainly reject anyway. my experiences probably wont be useful or enlightening; maybe im too lucky that my friends are actually reasonable folks lol
  13. i dont feel remotely attracted to my friends but i still befriend others bc i want to socialize. i find building friendships fun but all relationships hold the same value as me; hence why i just casually proposed qar with a friend i enjoy hanging with despite qar being a rather important relationship like a romantic 1. the aplatonic aspect of my orientation isnt that important to me personally; i dont have any strong feelings let alone attraction so i just go w the flow
  14. lovecook

    Please help

    ok. i think i might understand. the main takeaway from his behavior might be that hes touch averse as he not only dislikes romantic intimacy he also shy away from smth as simple as holding hands he might just have a lack of emotions in general; which is smth i also experience. idk what im feeling half the time and if im even feeling anything; i feel indifferent and fine with p much everything that happens since he has no desire to be in a romantic relationship then dont try to pursue it; u said that he loves u platonically like how he feels abt his family and friends so yall should stay friends since both of u are ok with that. theres nothing much to work out anymore; all u have to do is try to be a good friend and accept him as he is. as much as ur love tells u otherwise u have to remove urself from within that mindset since it will only stress u out; try to see him as an acquaintance; a friend. someone who ure not obliged to be really intimate with both physically and emotionally; someone u can just talk to. then slowly move on from him afterwards. thats it if u keep trying to make it work out romantically then it will only hurt u more in the long run. take it as a grain of salt but thats what id do anyway; its not a 100% healthy dynamic yall has
  15. i have no idea what that is but good for u
  16. tbh this always rubs me the wrong way; why do shipping culture care abt aspec ppl sm? whenever an aro character pops up they contemplate abt how theyre going to ship them and not anything else; cmon. do whatever tf u want as long as ure not actively being arophobic and erasing their canon orientation; its not the end of the world to represent a partnering aro; theyre literally walking on eggshells for no reason thats literally the arguments saiki k shippers use when aroacespec ppl try to defend their one of a few aroace characters they have; just bc the case of saiki is heavily aroace coded but wasnt explicitly stated. everyone goes head over heels for a character thats heavily lesbian/vincian coded and all concluded that theyre canonically attracted to women/men only; yet all of a sudden for aspec rep we need explicit statements from the creator themselves for it to be canon?? tf kind of hypocrisy is this. just say u dont want to acknowledge aroacespec ppl are getting representation; thats it saiki is canonically aroace; he literally said he dont experience nor understand romantic love which is the definition of aromanticism; are we even watching the same show if u think otherwise? hes not romantically interested in shit; end of story dont even get me started on the whole alastor aroace ordeal; alastor being ace is already widely known but hes also canonically aro yet the fandom hasnt really acknowledged or know that. vivzie didnt want to reveal that hes also aro due to the shipping community and their arophobia and complaints bc all of a sudden they cant ship him and have fun anymore; going back to ur previous point. its so stupid
  17. tbh their dynamic is wholesome asf but gets real toxic when theyre both just kids dealing with trauma using unhealthy coping mechanisms. if the main story didnt happen they woulda be the most qar ship ever i shall contribute by suggesting wolfwood and vash from trigun also gon and killua from hxh. both pairs have delicious dynamics and intense qar energy
  18. or shes way too much of a bigot to even care. either way terrible teacher 0/10
  19. username aroacedragon13 has taken the first post on the 69th page and i shall take the second. cheers update! the thing that annoyed me today is the outcry of the bigots over a recent news which states a shooting at a nashville school; ppl cares more abt the gender identity of the culprit [whos suspected to be trans] than the ppl they casually shot up. all ik rn is that the school was known for nasty shit done to children which all of u shouldve guessed by what nasty things now; and the shooter was once a student there now the bigots are going to use this case against all of the trans community bc one potentially trans individual committed a horrible crime. if we replace them with a cis white man nobody would be talking abt their gender lmao; talk abt hypocrisy and insensitivity. ppl fucking died yet thats all u care abt
  20. its ironic considering queer ppl has always existed thruout history and ur teacher just chose to ignore that lol also were almost at the 69th page
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