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two of my friends were talking about what they wanted their dress to look like and other details. I was confused. i didn't think ppl actually did that. same with high schoolers having sex. I continue to be shocked that, that is something ppl do. like don't y'all have homework or something?

do i need a gender identity? gender feels complex. i don't rlly care what im perceived as and i dont really prefer to be perceived as a boy rather than a girl or vice versa. i hate my chest and having a period. as for pronouns he/him is wrong and she/her fits i guess and they/them does too. i can't find a label that really clicks. any thoughts?

I get being tired of romance. its exhausting. im shocked that ppl actually plan/think about their weddings in high school.

theres valentines shit out already. this is ridiculous.

I've come out to myself,many friends and my mom and brother. It's affected my life in a few ways. It was a journey at first but I don't regret it. I'm a LOT happier. It's taught me many lessons and shown me who i can trust. I think people perceive me differently but mostly because i'm more confident and talkative. When I came out to my mom I was angry at first. I was confused because you normally see people who are so happy but I wasn't at least not how i thought I would. I think I was so scared because it felt weird after keeping it private for so long to have someone so important know that. It felt almost frustrating. So if you come out don't be surprised I guess if you react differently than what you see in the media. It's an individual journey so it's unique to you. It's also helped me form more real and meaningful friendships. It's hard to make friends when you don't know who you are let alone the people around you. It's helped my mental health more than I can describe. There have been a few negative affects of coming out but nothing that hasn't stopped me from continuing to do it. Personally I've struggled with the anxiety of people outing me to others. I combat those thoughts by talking about it. If I'm worried about a certain friend telling someone I talk to them. It also doesn't hurt to remind others of your boundaries. Make sure you trust someone before coming out to them. Also if a friend makes you feel bad about your identity then don't be afraid to call them out. Trust me it will save a lot of hurt than if you just let it go. I can't guarantee what will happen if you come out but I can tell you that every struggle and every victory since coming out have been MORE than worth it. There have been many dark times but just as many lighter ones. If you ever need to talk or have any questions or even just want to rant don't hesitate to reach out and private message me on here.

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yeah i have a few. Isaac from Heartstopper, his experiences were very relatable and I love how they portrayed things he was feeling throughout the new season. Wille from young royals, I saw a lot of myself in the way his anxiety was portrayed and it was really authentic. I definitely feel its harder to relate to a character who is in a relationship or isn't queer.

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ive never seen a horror movie but a sex scene in one seems really weird and like out of place? like aren't they about to die or smth and they're doing that instead? idk seems weird.

Ive started watching young royals and there's like sex scenes and it's bizzare like??? people think like this????this can't be normal???? yall are lying? people actuallly look at a picture of essentially a stranger and are like in fucking love???? bewildering and confusing.

I have advice! I came out to my mom by writing a note and then just leaving it where she would find it before I left for school. I got a text with her response while i was still at school and it wasn't anything huge, no big conversation or anything. It hasn't come up a ton since and it's been 7 months. I'd say try something like this? Whatever feels comfortable really.

Hi!

HATED by YUNGBLUD is a fucking masterpiece

These are so cool!!!

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maybe a queer platonic relationship? try looking at other terms with this link though if you want. https://www.aromanticism.org/en/attraction-relationship-terms

I WATCHED SEASON 2 OF HEARTSTOPPER!!!! Its literally so amazing!!!!!!!

oh my god that fucking sucks.

School starts in 1 month for me. It starts on the 7th. I don't want to go back. I'm excited about it too though. I get to take art every day now so that's fun i guess.

sounds like just anxiety