For me, I like pillow cuddles, mainly anything soft. (not really one.) BDSM I like, the submissive part especially. Bondage is cool, I probably would end Bondage at being tied like for long durations. (then again, I didnt have too much say) I do like the idea of crossdressing, probably wouldnt do it in public.
Then again my last relationship I felt used, so this is all I really know, I only started cuddling my pillow(s) recently, I generally try to stay away from sexual stuff as it brings back to much memories. But oh well.