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Banned for not recording the voices as evidence

I want a child soooooo badly! It will be tricky though as I am happily single and intend to stay that way, so the life of a single parent with disabilities and a small, scattered family will be a tough one. I still think it ill be worth it

UGH UGH UGH UGH UGH!!!!!!!!! Just the title made me shudder!!! This is the stuff nightmares are made of, a combination of an alloromantic society coupled with social interaction, with side dishes of public speaking and explaining things AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I haven't had anything as horrible and public as you really. I've had a few though, I always surprise myself with what I say:
primary school (asked out by friends of person): No. Why doesn;t he ask me himself? No.
Asked by text: I'm not that kind of girl.
Joking around: Sorry you're not my type 
Asked in street: Sorry I don;t bat for your team (little did he know I don;t play sport at all )
 

As a nonbinary, autistic, homeschooled, aro-ace who doesn't drive or subscribe to gender stereotypes it did surprisingly well I guess, it was completely wrong when it told me I was a trans man, but it was close when it said I was closest to androginy, particularly in my thinking, and that my thinking hasn't changed much from  childhood. It does seem very binary, stereotypical and sexualised. It also cut me out from some of the correct answers by making them unessecarily sexist phrases like 'women's work' and 'real man' made me cringe so much

Banned for initiating safety protocol 7928alpha and locking us out of the bridge AND setting arocolyse to self destruct

I identify as genderflux, my experience is similar to yours in that I fluctuate between agender and female. I get the exact same doubts, I wonder if I am confused, or if maybe I just want to be special. Sometimes, particularly in the beginning I would convince myself that I was a certain stable gender, be it a cis woman, or a demigirl etc. Then my gender would shift and I would become confused again. I still haven;t stopped doubting, but it is getting less and less. What I didn't expect was how much happier I am, I'm not out really, and I don;t know if I will be. but I guess the difference is in understanding and accepting myself. I changed my presentation, and payed more attention to how I was feeling, and it made a difference. I also feel more comfortable breaking gender norms, wearing the clothes I like, and not behaving in a girly way, when I am not a girl. These things aren't exclusive to being genderflux, but for me they came from having a better understanding of myself. 

I think the other thing is that we are pioneers in a way, there are very few people who can tell us what this world feels like, because not too long ago there was no word to describe it.

It is nice to hear from someone else who thinks they may be generflux. because there are so few of us, Good luck in your journey of self discovery

Banned for stealing my TARDIS and using it to transcend space-time