squish?

[smac n cheese]

I get really, really, strong squishes, and I have one on my friend right now. I wouldn't want to date her or anything considered romantic, but besides that, it feels exactly like the description of a crush, except wanting to be good friends instead of anything romantic. I'm pretty sure it's a squish and not a crush, but I'm still kinda confused. Could it still be a squish if it's really strong?

[SkyTuneRein]

Sure thing. If you can cross out romantic and sexual desires or inclinations then I would call it a squish, no matter how strong. Be careful though, as I had strong squishes ruining friendships after I mistakenly lead others into thinking I was really open to a romantic partnership...and this is coming from somebody who tends not to care much, if at all, about "people things" or how people feel about me.

Edited December 24, 2023 by SkyTuneRein

[smac n cheese]

Thank you for the advice! 😊

[Collie]

Yes, squishes can be intense.