smac n cheese Posted December 8, 2023 Share Posted December 8, 2023 Hi! I'm smac n cheese, and I'm aroace! I... yeah don't currently know other aroaces or arose or aces so that's why I'm here! Oh I also have a HUMONGOUS squish on my friend so if you want to give me advice on how not to have a panic attack when I talk to her, explain my squish to my other friends, or anything like that, that would be neat but you don't have to :) Nice meeting you all! 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrueEvergreen Posted December 8, 2023 Share Posted December 8, 2023 Welcome! On the squish thing, whenever I have a squish, i usually try to remind myself that i want to be friends with this person, and just act like i would with all of my other friends. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isa1116 Posted December 8, 2023 Share Posted December 8, 2023 Hiiii!!!! Nice to meet u! I'm Isa. Sorry, I don't have any advice for the squish thing but I hope you can have a good time here! :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jot-Aro Kujo Posted December 8, 2023 Share Posted December 8, 2023 Panic attacks? That's concerning. Do you have a therapist? Have you seen anyone about an anxiety diagnosis? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeltaAro Posted December 8, 2023 Share Posted December 8, 2023 20 hours ago, smac n cheese said: Hi! I'm smac n cheese, and I'm aroace! I... yeah don't currently know other aroaces or arose or aces so that's why I'm here! Hi! 20 hours ago, smac n cheese said: Oh I also have a HUMONGOUS squish on my friend so if you want to give me advice on how not to have a panic attack when I talk to her, explain my squish to my other friends, or anything like that, that would be neat but you don't have to :) So I assume that's tongue in cheek... in that case just don't overthink it. 🙂 But if you really mean it: You shouldn't get panic attacks when talking to people you like. 😟 You probably have social anxiety, so please seek help. It tends to become worse over time without proper treatment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smac n cheese Posted December 8, 2023 Author Share Posted December 8, 2023 18 hours ago, Jot-Aro Kujo said: Panic attacks? That's concerning. Do you have a therapist? Have you seen anyone about an anxiety diagnosis? No, but I do have social anxiety I think. The panic attacks got better over time so I think I'm fine for now, but thanks for your concern! 😊 49 minutes ago, DeltaAro said: Hi! So I assume that's tongue in cheek... in that case just don't overthink it. 🙂 But if you really mean it: You shouldn't get panic attacks when talking to people you like. 😟 You probably have social anxiety, so please seek help. It tends to become worse over time without proper treatment. It actually got better over time, but I had it so bad last year I couldn't even talk to anyone 😭 I don't think it's a problem now, probably just tounge in cheek like you said 😊 20 hours ago, TrueEvergreen said: Welcome! On the squish thing, whenever I have a squish, i usually try to remind myself that i want to be friends with this person, and just act like i would with all of my other friends. Ohhhhhh that's a really good suggestion thank you! 19 hours ago, Isa1116 said: Hiiii!!!! Nice to meet u! I'm Isa. Sorry, I don't have any advice for the squish thing but I hope you can have a good time here! :) Nice to meet you too Isa! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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