Ted guy Posted February 21 Share Posted February 21 (edited) I wanted to do this post over with better details and explain in better details. I have a job that enables me to meet a lot of new people. When i meet a new girl and look at her, she is interpreting it differently than I expect. Every time I'm around her, she will try more and more to get close to me. She will stare for me to catch her looking at my eyes......then she smiles. It's just obvious green light to break the ice (dating is extremely loose where I come from) The same girls will keep doing it. ---------------------------------- The same thing happened a week or two ago, and the girl literally jumped and got excited. She came towards me and tried to engage with me, but I got away. Now when I see her, she is trying to get my attention (where as before, we would just walk past each other) IT FLABBERGASTS ME The whole point is....NON-AROS HAVE A MUCH DIFFERENT PERCEPTION ON NON-VERBAL CUES AND DATING From my experience, eye contact appears to be powerful ------------------- When someone looks at me, I always interpret they just want to chat, ask a question, or figure something out, etc. But non-aro people seem to have a different perception that makes me uncomfortable. I'm worried it could turn into something ugly. Like imagine a scenario where they thought i was being creepy, they tell their boyfriend and I get confronted aggressively. ETC. I am insecure about it, and that was the reason I got highly offended on my last post where someone was answering in a way that makes me look creepy (I'm sorry for this). Has anyone ever encountered this problem? Different perceptions, etc? Edited February 21 by Ted guy 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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