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Recently, I confirmed to myself that I am not cisgender. It's something I've been dancing around for a very long time, but a few days ago it just clicked into place as a fact rather than a possibility.

The problem is, I don't know what to do with that information. I don't have the faintest idea of how to use it. I know what it's supposed to mean, but I don't know what it actually means for me. I don't even know what label(s) fit, or if I want to use them. I don't know literally anything about what I should do now, or what I want to do now.

So, uh, anywhere I can begin?

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Some things you can do:

- Talk to other trans folks about your feelings (in person or online)

- Consider what name/pronoun set really resonates with you

- Try some new styles with clothes, hair, etc.

Hope this advice helps!

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I would consult someone wise.  I know this isn't the same thing, but when I realized I was a therian, I was in shock for about a week.  The things that helped were talking to my girlfriend (who was trans and said we had a lot in common), and talking to a local psychic (who didn't say anything in particular, but was just comforting in general).

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