Neon Posted October 4, 2022 Share Posted October 4, 2022 Recently, I confirmed to myself that I am not cisgender. It's something I've been dancing around for a very long time, but a few days ago it just clicked into place as a fact rather than a possibility. The problem is, I don't know what to do with that information. I don't have the faintest idea of how to use it. I know what it's supposed to mean, but I don't know what it actually means for me. I don't even know what label(s) fit, or if I want to use them. I don't know literally anything about what I should do now, or what I want to do now. So, uh, anywhere I can begin? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
illumi Posted October 4, 2022 Share Posted October 4, 2022 stay unlabeled til you find something that fits you. nobody can guide you thoroughly through it still depends on you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karst Posted October 14, 2022 Share Posted October 14, 2022 Some things you can do: - Talk to other trans folks about your feelings (in person or online) - Consider what name/pronoun set really resonates with you - Try some new styles with clothes, hair, etc. Hope this advice helps! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alto Posted October 14, 2022 Share Posted October 14, 2022 I would consult someone wise. I know this isn't the same thing, but when I realized I was a therian, I was in shock for about a week. The things that helped were talking to my girlfriend (who was trans and said we had a lot in common), and talking to a local psychic (who didn't say anything in particular, but was just comforting in general). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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