I am asexual and aromantic but I have A LOT of aesthetic, platonic and sensual attraction. It feels like I am aroace but without the privilegue of never having feelings for anyone.
I get squishes on people I shouldnt, I get sensually attracted to people I shouldnt or dont want to get attracted to, aesthetic attraction is making me become nervous and stumble over my words, I get jealous if other people get more attention from my squishes than me but actually I dont want them to like me more than everyone else, because that would be weird too.
I can relate with allos a lot but never fully, because yes, I want to touch him but not in that way, yes I want her to kiss me but without feelings, yes I want to look at them all day and talk to them all the time and I want them to like me too but not that way. Its like I neither belong to allo nor aro, even though Im aromantic.
Attraction can be a nice feeling but on the other hand its also extremly frustrating and I dont know how to deal with it.
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I am asexual and aromantic but I have A LOT of aesthetic, platonic and sensual attraction. It feels like I am aroace but without the privilegue of never having feelings for anyone.
I get squishes on people I shouldnt, I get sensually attracted to people I shouldnt or dont want to get attracted to, aesthetic attraction is making me become nervous and stumble over my words, I get jealous if other people get more attention from my squishes than me but actually I dont want them to like me more than everyone else, because that would be weird too.
I can relate with allos a lot but never fully, because yes, I want to touch him but not in that way, yes I want her to kiss me but without feelings, yes I want to look at them all day and talk to them all the time and I want them to like me too but not that way. Its like I neither belong to allo nor aro, even though Im aromantic.
Attraction can be a nice feeling but on the other hand its also extremly frustrating and I dont know how to deal with it.
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