coming out..-?

[Bumble_Bee_]

So, I don't know how to come out to my mom and it's been bothering me because she keeps passive-aggressively telling me to get married and have kids

 

Do I just say like- 

"Mom, I'm {aroace}" and like explain that to her, or-?

[MaxIsCosmic]

I haven't come out but I my sister has (she is a lesbian) she says if you are gonna do it do it when they are happy and not aloud a whole bunch of family (hope this helps) 

*around I can't spell 

[Holmbo]

Maybe you can start by asking her to not pressure you to get married or have kids. Tell her it's making you uncomfortable and that this decision is up to you and not something for her to demand of you. If she doesn't comply with that I don't think there's much use coming out to her.

[BloodyBlood]

hey there! in my opinion best thing is to first talk with the one who more understandable and more wise/open lgbtq and stuff, then try to say idk maybe like { mom/dad i have to talk about something important with you } then talk about it with them in private and like, mom/dad have you heard about aro/ace ? then explain it and then look how would they react , in case if they did not react well its best to get help from friends about it, anyway hope i helped and i hope your mother understand u better :< anyway have lovely day ^v^

[Bumble_Bee_]

Thank you all for the help!! <3

[BloodyBlood]

10 minutes ago, Quinn_ said:

Thank you all for the help!! <3

yw yw! <3