I'm scared

[MaxIsCosmic]

I am a minor and my would only call me confused and stupid if I came out and I don't know if I have to pay to use this website if you have any tips please tell me 

[roboticanary]

Ok. First up you definitely do not have to pay to use this website.

Please let us know if something on the site is saying otherwise because that would be a pretty serious problem 

As for being called confused and stupid there's not a lot of advice I can give. Other people suck sometimes. Just work quietly on understanding yourself and try to do what you think is best for your life. Remember you are under no obligation to tell anyone about your identity. Remember there are also plenty of people who don't think you are stupid and understand the struggles of a young aro.

[MaxIsCosmic]

thank you so much for telling me that I was really worried if I had to pay or not 

also it's nice to know someone is out there who might understand what I'm dealing with  

[Holmbo]

My advice is to take some time on this forum. Read and write in the different posts and maybe that will help you feel better. You don't have to come out if you feel like you're not ready for others reactions.