pigeonhead Posted May 6, 2020 Share Posted May 6, 2020 I will experience sexual attraction to those who I don't know very well, but the more I get to know them and the closer we become, I feel disgusted at the thought of performing those actions onto them and do not experience sexual attraction. This happens with all genders, as does my demiromanticism. What is this called, I'm really confused. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Rando Posted May 6, 2020 Share Posted May 6, 2020 (edited) Hey If I understand you well, you can experience sexual attraction to "strangers" but it fades away once you form a bond with them. This sticks well with the label Fraysexual. This is kind of the inverse of demisexual (ie. you can develop sexual attraction only to people you have otherwise bonded with). Edited May 6, 2020 by John Rando 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EretThePangolin Posted May 7, 2020 Share Posted May 7, 2020 Like John Rando posted, this sounds a lot like Fraysexual but if you feel that doesn't quite fit you I'd also look into Anegosexual. At the most basic, it means you can fantisize about people or things that are sexual in nature but have no interest in the act of sex itself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pigeonhead Posted May 7, 2020 Author Share Posted May 7, 2020 Thanks for the help, I'm pretty sure fraysexual fits best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El011 Posted December 28, 2020 Share Posted December 28, 2020 Fraysexual, but you could also just need therapy if it's causing distress (you used the word disgusted). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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