Anything_but_allo Posted January 19, 2019 Share Posted January 19, 2019 Hi everyone, me again first off thank you for all the support I’ve been getting from my posts lately! It means a lot and I’ve been feeling less alone about my feelings know. But I was just curious if others felt this way as well, before they even knew they were aro (like I did.) Anyways, well ever since I’m as quite young I always remember feeling awfully confused as to why romantic relationships were put into higher standards. The thought of meeting one person, (someone that I literally just met) and locking eyes with them and thinking, “oh man, they’re the love of my life. I wanna spend every moment of my life with them.” And pretty much go off with them and not really be with friends or family that much anymore felt so stupid and weird. Like why and how? Isn’t that selfish towards your friends and family? What about other people in your life? You just forget about them and give all of your love and attention to one person? I realize not all relationships are like this, but one of the biggest things that makes me uncomfortable about romantic relationships (and even qpr’s to a certain extent) is the amount of attention and time you give to one person. I honestly never understood how someone wouldn’t get exhausted or stressed after awhile. Just curious though if anyone else feels the same way I do, or maybe did for a long time. Thank you all again! ? 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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