BasicallyEmoPotato

This one is probably already mentioned:

"You'll find the right person someday."
 

@The Aro Mando EchoWhat does ur signature mean? off topic ik

9 hours ago, hemogoblin said:

Ime relationships are awful and draining. I like getting to just do what I want on my time. What a relief.

what's an lme relationship

I kind of want a QPR with a close friend, but he's out of reach. I don't really need a romantic relationship. I'm fine being single, but I do wish I could have someone to spend my time with every day, like a best friend.

Karen

Wait, do you suffer from OCD as well?
If you are comfortable with asking, I was wondering if you do have it.

tea

1 minute ago, The Lost One said:

made me learn a bit about reproductive organs. Blech.

man. why would they do that?

What has school done to you?

13 hours ago, Rather be Reading said:

I read Elatsoe by Darcie Little Badger recently and enjoyed it! The main character is aroace, and clearly stated to be so multiple times.  

 

 

really? I've read another one of their books called A Snake Falls to Earth.

I did that twice before I realized I was on the aro spectrum.

5 minutes ago, KoconutBounty said:

i've been able to avoid this ex friend but now i kinda feel its my fault for her being able to catch me (I'm quite a bit taller) because i knew where she was yet i still sat near by ish because some other friends were in the same area. 

does ignoring help?

2 minutes ago, KoconutBounty said:

a person who was a Toxic Ex Friend just came up to me and asked why I was no longer talking to her, acting as if I was still her friend, and asked if I was mad at her or something I lied and said no, and now I just idk what to do. she believes she did nothing wrong. I remember a lot of the stuff she did, and she still treats my best friend (I call her my lil twin) Horribly, like shes the dirt of the planet or smth

I see.

Before I knew I was aro, one of my friends told me he liked me and I knew I didn't like him back, and I didn't have to balls to reject him, so I dated him anyway. Nevertheless, I was severely uncomfortable with being in a relationship with him.

On 4/13/2023 at 1:35 AM, chillbro said:

vanilla and strawberry at the same time!

would it be called vanberry? or what about vanilerry?

that sounds GOOD

Do you think telling her what she did wrong made you feel will help?

4 minutes ago, KoconutBounty said:

i dont even known what to do anymore. I'm so conflicted

what's going on?

23 hours ago, AroAcedragon13 said:

mint of any kind.makes me wanna throw up.

chocolate mint is even worse

19 hours ago, AroAcedragon13 said:

my brother is so fucking annoying while gaming. Literally yelling for no reason.

what is he doing?

48 minutes ago, KoconutBounty said:

macaroni salad

ew ive had that before

50 minutes ago, The Aro Mando Echo said:

Shrimp. I hate shrimp.

i see.

When I was 15, I dated a close friend of mine. He had confessed to me that he liked me, and I didn't want to ruin our friendship, so I decided to say I liked him back. As far as I knew then, I was "unlikable" because that was the first time someone had confessed their feelings to me. So, we dated for a little bit. We even kissed a few times. I didn't feel necessarily repulsed by the kisses, but they felt fake. While I was dating him, I had a feeling that I was just doing this to fit in, and I was. A few months later, he messaged me and told me he didn't like me anymore. I cannot tell you how relieved I was to find that out. I was so uncomfortable with him touching me in a romantic sense, and because I am not that strong in setting boundaries for myself, I felt so amazing when I got out. But I tried ignoring that feeling for a while, and even tried convincing myself I was "sad" when he broke up with me. I even tried making myself cry a few times. The real reason that I was "sad" was because I was worried about what had become of our friendship. I ended up treating him a little badly after the breakup. I avoided hanging out with him because I didn't like the awkwardness. (For the record, everything is okay now between him and I.) He's in a relationship with someone else right now, and I feel really happy for him, even though I don't understand relationships and how they work.

i don't remember when exactly, but after the time I had my first boyfriend, I started identifying as demiromantic. Which I guess makes sense. I forced myself to crush on my friends, so I thought that because he was a close friend, I had become close enough where I could develop a crush on him. Now I know that's not true. I was doing everything in my power to think I experienced romantic attraction because I didn't want to face the reality of not experiencing romantic attraction. I don't exactly know why I didn't want to face the reality of my being aromantic. It still confuses me to this day. It took a while. I was able to face the fact that I have never experienced romantic attraction and never will. And now I'm aro fully :)

What’s one food you’ve tried but would never eat again? 

20 minutes ago, AroAcedragon13 said:

So you know the struggle of liking a song but it's so overly romantic or sexual that it's annoying but you still like it because of the way it sounds not really because of the lyrics i figured out a solution. Find a instrumental version. 10/10 solution would recommend.

hm, a great suggestion.

2 hours ago, glypharia.exe said:

i'm my grandparents only grandchild. since intermediate school, they've been asking me about "do you have a boyfriend yet?" and "when are you getting a boyfriend?" and it's honestly infuriating. it's just awkward. every time i go to see them and say "i'm just focusing on my studies right now" or "i'm not interested in anyone at the moment", they look so disappointed. 

hate amatonormativity

that's what I say too

One thing that I have experienced:
 

Today I told my friend that I am going to prom, and the first thing he asked me I had a date. And I am pretty sure he knows I am aro.

1 hour ago, KoconutBounty said:

I think he's just a misunderstood child who don't really know any better because his own family lied to him and practically abandoned him. in the finale he clearly showed that he seemed to have some sort of abandonment issues, because of the way that he was when he felt that King had betrayed him.

 

Yeah, poor kid.

1 hour ago, KoconutBounty said:

if your sure

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I think he's just a misunderstood child who don't really know any better because his own family lied to him and practically abandoned him. in the finale he clearly showed that he seemed to have some sort of abandonment issues, because of the way that he was when he felt that King had betrayed him.

 

though my favorite character was King's father, he was amazing and just so well thought out. and don't get me started on the bread pun.

 

A bit off-topic, but how did you do the spoiler thing?

1 hour ago, KoconutBounty said:

rainbow yarn, its like a dark neon rainbow ombre thing lol

The colour choice is pretty :)

1 hour ago, The Aro Mando Echo said:

Ooh nice! I wish I knew how to crochet lol..

Me, too