BasicallyEmoPotato

This one is probably already mentioned: "You'll find the right person someday."

@The Aro Mando EchoWhat does ur signature mean? off topic ik

what's an lme relationship I kind of want a QPR with a close friend, but he's out of reach. I don't really need a romantic relationship. I'm fine being single, but I do wish I could have someone to spend my time with every day, like a best friend.

Karen

Wait, do you suffer from OCD as well? If you are comfortable with asking, I was wondering if you do have it.

tea

man. why would they do that?

What has school done to you?

really? I've read another one of their books called A Snake Falls to Earth.

I did that twice before I realized I was on the aro spectrum.

does ignoring help?

I see.

Before I knew I was aro, one of my friends told me he liked me and I knew I didn't like him back, and I didn't have to balls to reject him, so I dated him anyway. Nevertheless, I was severely uncomfortable with being in a relationship with him.

that sounds GOOD

Do you think telling her what she did wrong made you feel will help?

what's going on?

chocolate mint is even worse what is he doing?

ew ive had that before i see.

When I was 15, I dated a close friend of mine. He had confessed to me that he liked me, and I didn't want to ruin our friendship, so I decided to say I liked him back. As far as I knew then, I was "unlikable" because that was the first time someone had confessed their feelings to me. So, we dated for a little bit. We even kissed a few times. I didn't feel necessarily repulsed by the kisses, but they felt fake. While I was dating him, I had a feeling that I was just doing this to fit in, and I was. A few months later, he messaged me and told me he didn't like me anymore. I cannot tell you how relieved I was to find that out. I was so uncomfortable with him touching me in a romantic sense, and because I am not that strong in setting boundaries for myself, I felt so amazing when I got out. But I tried ignoring that feeling for a while, and even tried convincing myself I was "sad" when he broke up with me. I even tried making myself cry a few times. The real reason that I was "sad" was because I was worried about what had become of our friendship. I ended up treating him a little badly after the breakup. I avoided hanging out with him because I didn't like the awkwardness. (For the record, everything is okay now between him and I.) He's in a relationship with someone else right now, and I feel really happy for him, even though I don't understand relationships and how they work. i don't remember when exactly, but after the time I had my first boyfriend, I started identifying as demiromantic. Which I guess makes sense. I forced myself to crush on my friends, so I thought that because he was a close friend, I had become close enough where I could develop a crush on him. Now I know that's not true. I was doing everything in my power to think I experienced romantic attraction because I didn't want to face the reality of not experiencing romantic attraction. I don't exactly know why I didn't want to face the reality of my being aromantic. It still confuses me to this day. It took a while. I was able to face the fact that I have never experienced romantic attraction and never will. And now I'm aro fully :)

What’s one food you’ve tried but would never eat again?

hm, a great suggestion.

that's what I say too