Wesley
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I have anxiety (since early childhood), extreme social anxiety (to the point where I debated posting this for 20 minutes), depression, and childhood sexual trauma (SA). My aroace identity has been dismissed in the past by people in my life because of this. For a while, I had also believed this about my self because of internal arophobia. I personally, believe that orientation is fluid and can change over time (or stay the same), so factors such as mental illness, trauma, or any others could affect a person’s orientation; this doesn’t make a person’s identity any less valid. (This can apply to any orientation.)
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yumm, in stereotypical aroace fashion black olives
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A straight girl in my previous class just asked my sexuality, and I told her “AroAce,” she then continued to ask me a ton of kinda hurtful questions like “oh, so your going to die alone?” “you don’t want to get pregnant?” “so you wont have a wedding?” “that’s so sad and lonely,” etc. I hate having to come out to someone when they do this. Like, I encourage respectful questions, but what she did is why I am internally arophobic towards myself. Luckily I have good friends, and when she walked away my friends agreed that she was unintentionally rude. :/
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