There are ALWAYS several factors that make a person who they are. Having said that, it’s damn impossible to change who you are. All humans are complicated. Learn to live with who you are.
No. It’s not just allos. Asexuals are MORE obsessed with this kind of stuff, being in relationships and doing things they feel is romantic, like cuddling and sharing beds.
When I see the ATT commercial and Mark Wahlberg says "watch unlimited romance ... if you're into that" and I'm thankful he's hinting not everyone is into that.
I have many friends who are not asexual and none of them talk about a desire for romance. They emphasize sex as the reason they want to be with their partner. So there's that.
I never understand why people who say they love each other fight and argue all the time and say a relationship requires work. A so-called emotion is work?
I've just never understood the amount of time and energy people put into finding it and then keeping it going. I'm exhausted right now thinking about it.
Yeah most couples I know do nothing but complain about the other. I honestly don't know why so many people stay together for what seems to me as convenience.