Lovebird

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Lovebird

The way (some) ppl in the aro community will talk about those in toxic & abusive relationships is incredibly disturbing and extremely invalidating as someone who was previously in a toxic relationship and is still arospec. Plus the constant "bragging" of "I'm aro therefore I'm immune to (all) abuse!" which is an extremely privlidged position to hold.
- February 25, 2023
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2. Antioch
  
  Yikes, I've never encountered this and I am so glad. I was in a physically and emotionally abusive friendship. Thinking that we're immune is so dangerous.
  
  February 27, 2023
  
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3. Atypique
  
  Same thing for me. I'm aro, I won't get myself in a toxic relationship. However I did go through really toxic friendships, never realized it, and and decide to accept everything that the person could do... Because they were a friend
  
  February 27, 2023
  
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4. Lovebird
  
  @Antiochit's quite common on the r/aromantic subreddit, tho tbf the sub itself is full of batshit people who think aros can never experience negative relationships, only aphobia.
  
  @Atypique I was also in a toxic friendship and it nearly killed me, I only thought those in romantic relationships were abusive at the time. I was totally wrong.
  
  February 28, 2023
  
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