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why is it that the one time i post the fact that i find sex very unappealing on r/teenagers, i get bombed with downvotes (which i dont rlly give a shit about) and comments like "lost cause"
i rlly dont get it
i mean they dont hurt that bad but it's sad how ppl think that even if i dont understand why
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Sex is often an important experience that many allos struggle to have or maintain, and this goal is especially difficult during modern times.
A lot of time and energy may get invested in this goal, so now imagine they see your post. Sex doesnt even seem to be a factor or pursuit for this person.
They don’t even struggle with this and openly state its unappealing. The fact that you live without sexual ambitions, ambitions which frustrate allos makes them jealous of you. The fact you can be happy without sex makes them very jealous. Added to this they may attack happy virgins because these allos see themselves in another.
They see another virgin, who cannot be happy while im miserable! It goes against amatanormativity, their experience, they must be saying they are happy to cope. I think the root of it lies in jealousy and insecurity.
Thats just a guess though…
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why tf did i get this video recommended
(i have no regrets)
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wow. the owl house ending went rlly hard now did it
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you know what sucks?
culture shock, mainly the romance kind
i met up with a few old friends i havent seen irl since the pandemic (for reference they're mostly 1yr older than me, or the same age as me. one of them is 1yr younger than me tho)
most times i'd overhear them going "i want a bf" or like "i just left a toxic relationship" or smth and im kinda like "ok" in my head but i cant rlly find common ground with them
one of them (younger one) said "i want to get a bf in highschool"
like girls i get ur point u can stop being allosexual now
at least one of the friends (i'll call A) didn't rlly participate bc she's a lesbian/bisexual so we kinda talked about AJR and animation and now that's what i can relate to a lil bit
when all of them weren't talking about partners and potential dates n stuff, we were cool. talked about manga and learned that "adult" manga exists. it's basically nudity but someone had the balls to draw uncensored boobs and super sexualized situations.
we watched a Studio Ghibli movie (howl's moving castle) bc A was particularly "offended" that i haven't watched it yet
the animation is truly *chef's kiss* and i loved it (WHY DO THE SHEEP LOOK LIKE BALLS OF WHITE IT'S SO CUTE)but still, feeling all the fucking culture shock kinda just made me realize im prolly gonna be hanging around ppl who want bfs/gfs/partners more than they do an actual platonic friend i bet
as certain cartoon caracters would say I guess this is my life now.
tho im not too sure how to deal with the fact that im 15, have 0 interest in gaining a bf or gf (i want friends the most), and cannot relate to the "i want [romantic thing here]" sentiments
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