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everything that's green is aromantic.

same goes with purple being ace

i personally feel like i fit in with both aro and ace places, kinda like a VIP pass to enter (tho ofc i'm not sayin that people should gatekeep, tryin to give examples here)

i picture the "aces can feel love" and other variations of it as love in general. platonic love, alterous, etc.

i do prefer if the communities were aroace in specific (slightly better relatability) but im ok with aro communities

i think i've always assumed crushes and love was for the movies and cheesy romcoms, and never really put much thought into it until somoene had a crush on me

i mean, to be fair, i'll admit i treated him quite unfairly (but then again he did some things that looking back were also not right) but i was mostly just holding up so much anger and paranoia about shit

and then i talked about it with an online counsolor and she told me about asexuality and eventually that led me to aromanticism

peach bubly is awesome

but i rlly rlly like lemon iced tea or the juice from the red/purple freezy (yes ik weird)

im a tea enjoyer tho, coffee smells atrocious and i dont wanna try it, my favorite teas are the fruit ones with lemony tastes to them, but i can settle for chamomile if seriously needed

oh, almost forgot a special addition: starbucks refreshers (the sour ones with a sweet undertone, which for now can be described as that yellow one [i think it's pineapple and grapefruit or some shit idk but it's yellow])

fair rule

this is an aro forum

not some random anon q&a section

idk when/if i answered this bc i forget stuff but im legally not allowed to

most i've gotten was non-alcoholic stuff

i feel more ace for sure, because romance is something so similar to friendship in my eyes that it gives me doubt as to whether i truly experience romance or not

sexuality im more sure about because never in my whole life have i felt an urge to f*ck ppl, romance is an iffy thing bc highschool makes everyone romance obsessed and the urge to fit in has never been higher, so there's a lot of self-doubt that goes there

3 hours ago, Nix said:

Also why I am active on this site and not on AVEN.

tbh i feel AVEN is more active as a community than here, im mostly only here on my pc where AVEN has been blocked on a level i can't figure out how to unblock

there's aroace spaces on AVEN if you know where to look

I sometimes feel this way, and surprisingly watching aroace tiktoks or ace tiktoks makes me feel more validated and happier

would totally recomend! tons of comps on yt!

interestingly somber at the beginning

also a somber song in general

10/10 nice music, which makes for an interesting effect

interestingly enough one of the singers of this band also died of suicide which is most likely less than a coincidence (rip scott, even if i only found out about it today)

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anywayyyyssssss

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9q2tLynR73w

sexual for sure

mainly because I asked a buuunch of online strangers what sexual attraction means and apparently finding someone to be very very visually attractive isn't one of them

romantic? unsure, because romance hard

im probably just aroace in denial but the denial don't stop so the questioning don't stop :)

i prolly wont

but i'd attend weddings for the free food and drinks, as i do with other parties

y o u s e e t h e b a g

this entire animatic is fucking funny

"what's updog"

"nothing much, how about you"

Hey! Welcome!

I'm aro-ace but I consider myself to be Achillean leaning bc men are awesome to look at and appreciate from a distance

tbh I haven't figured most of it out yet but as a genderqueer/maverique/prefer not to label person, I only recently got into the angled aroace thing

i feel like im more platonically into women then men irl, but maybe that's a result of being afab and a few... iffy experiences with men

i know for a fact that for awhile i confused platonic and visual attraction with romantic attraction, so that doesn't help much

i really don't want to be perceived as anything other than the clumped gender shit ive got going on, so i want to be seen as nb or at least not fully a man nor a woman. i feel like if i had a friendship/qpr with someone i'd 100% just call it a queer relationship bc it's easier

original:

changed:

somewhere in space
Put
It will be easier
You won't feel pain
The lowest life in the world
I really need an audience
That's why I don't see people around me.
I'm about to explode
I pulled out my symphony
Every street in the city
I just want to clear my mind
The song is over
It is very important
So this is death for me
Or maybe I'm better
Get drums now
Take a picture of Hennessy
I know that I am not spiritual
But you can fix it
let me play with you

"Put"

25 minutes ago, Deltalorian said:

I read that as bussy as I scrolled past, I think I need to get of the internet...

...tired.

the internet made me the kind of person to make a "ur mom" or a "tits or ass" joke every 5 seconds when the opportunity arises

it gets worse when i start having no age filter and doing it in front of 10yr olds

Whatever you draw eventually turn evil and start attacking you, and this process is inevitable.

I can make art masterpieces with absolute ease.

The sounds of piracy.

cat

never wanted romance a lot anyways, bein aro only makes me more confident in saying so

i was always (and still am) more invested in fictional characters than actual people tbh

somehow fiction has warped my sense of romance forever

somewhere in a tiny corner of my brain, im convinced that dating is a fictional concept (why include in fiction content then? huh?) so im always mildly surprised when ppl talk about dates and stuff

i just need lots of loving friends and family to always have my back honestly

romance is temporary, platonic love is forever

a tragedy in 23 seconds

kissing and romantic hand holding

also, not a gesture, but i love sexual/romantic tension between characters, so sweet

(you can tell that all my romance experience is from TV, can you not?)