Chibi Sam Winchester

Welcome to the community

I can sort of empathize with the situation you're in, I've been in a relationship like this before. I think you did the right thing in breaking up with your girlfriend, if she's making you feel bad enough to reach out to this forum for help then that relationship isn't worth it. You're a better person than you're giving yourself credit for, remember that. You're not going to want to hear this, but the best way to deal with all of your sad feelings is to let them out. Depending on how much time you have, give yourself a day to listen to sad songs and eat comfort food, and even let yourself cry. Once you're let those feelings out, it'll be easier to pick yourself up and look for something better that makes you happy.

Thx for the support. How would I explain this to her, I'm still a little confused on how this would work out

I agree with all the posts said before. I'd greatly appreciate just a space where people can talk, make friends, and share their experiences with their identities. Like @Naegleria fowleri said, the social aspect of it like games, activities, and food would add to the feeling of welcome and belonging. I think what everyone is trying to say is that the specifics of what the group does isn't as important. Just the fact that a group like that exists would make so many people feel more at home and appreciated in their community, and I think that this is a great idea.

Hiya, I'm knew here and was looking for some assistance. Long story short, I'm a questioning aro with a girlfriend, what do I do? A bit more detail about this is I've been questioning for a while now. I've definitely had crushes in the past, and I've been in relationships as well. But I've never been with someone for long due to just feeling out of place in a relationship. And as for crushes, the seem to be mainly physical attraction and never last long either. I do like the idea of romance a good deal, as a matter of fact I'm fairly into ship culture and such. And I've imagined myself in long-term romantic relationships, but my ideal relationship just seems to be a good, long term, caring friend. I'm fairly happy with my girlfriend, it's the best relationship I've ever been in. But it's really no different from friends with a title, our relationship would be the same regardless of whether it was labeled as a friendship or romantic relationship, if that makes sense. And I've been reading a lot on this site lately, and I can honestly relate to how a lot of out aro people describe themselves and their experiences. How do I figure out who I am, any advice is greatly appreciated. Also apparently people use this emoji a lot because of the colors so here's that, I'm totally gonna use this more often.