Queen of Spades Posted May 20, 2017 Share Posted May 20, 2017 So... first things first. I can only end up desiring a boy sexually if I know him to some degree. We have to be at least buddies/colleagues on good terms. However, although I don't have to necessarily be aesthetically attracted to him in order for sexual attraction to occur, the way he looks still does matter to me. What I mean is that if I find his appearance repulsing, while I wouldn't say no to a friendship because I'm not judgmental, I'd never be able to sleep with him. I'm grossed out and I know for certain that if I dislike the way he looks, I'd never ever end up wanting to sleep with him, no matter what. In order for sexual attraction to occur, his appearance can vary anywhere from "normal" to looking fantastic. Otherwise nope. Just nope. Is this something normal or is this just my case? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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