CatNap Posted November 1, 2023 Share Posted November 1, 2023 Why do I know I won't be attracted to anyone? I have been before. I always tell myself I won't be attracted to who I want to give a shot. And all times I'm right. I need to have a crush soon. It's just like me being a kid again. Constantly wanting to be in a relationship, solely because others are, and I don't want to feel like a misfit. Constantly feeling frustrated that I don't feel that way. I have before. So why can't i suddenly now? It's been months since the last person I've dated, and I think felt that way towards. Why does it take forever for a crush to develop? No matter how many new people I meet, I'm not romantically attracted to them at all. I don't get how people can be attracted to strangers, since I haven't been romantically attracted to a stranger once in my life. Only friends, and people with strong emotional bonds. Familiar people. And my crushes are, for the most part "spaced out." I mean there is always a distance, time-wards, in which I have my crushes. Mainly months apart, or something. Maybe sometimes even an entire school year with 1 or no crushes. As a kid, I used to feel like it took forever for me to develop a crush, and I was always envious of people who were dating. Because I wanted what they had, and I wanted to fit in. Nowadays I could care less about any of that, and am content with being single and not feeling romantically towards anyone. At least for now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CatNap Posted November 1, 2023 Author Share Posted November 1, 2023 I feel like I'm overthinking this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrueEvergreen Posted November 1, 2023 Share Posted November 1, 2023 1 hour ago, BloodLust said: I feel like I'm overthinking this. You really aren't, if you think that you are feeling the signs for being demiro, then it's a possibility. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hemogoblin Posted November 2, 2023 Share Posted November 2, 2023 Is the pressure to have a crush coming from you or external forces or maybe a combo of both? I'm glad you are feeling content, though. That's good! It's a difficult level of maturity to start growing from trying to be what others want you to be into accepting yourself for who you really are. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CatNap Posted November 2, 2023 Author Share Posted November 2, 2023 9 hours ago, hemogoblin said: Is the pressure to have a crush coming from you or external forces or maybe a combo of both? I'm glad you are feeling content, though. That's good! It's a difficult level of maturity to start growing from trying to be what others want you to be into accepting yourself for who you really are. Yep. Probably both. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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