alto Posted September 8, 2023 Share Posted September 8, 2023 So I have been hanging out with this guy ever since the semester started. We online-chatted over the summer, and we had one or two dinners together last school year. He can't get a girlfriend, and has complained about that in the past. However, he doesn't complain too much. A lot of the girls at my school don't think he is very cute, but I do not think he is bad-looking at all. I am pretty sure I'm not romantically attracted to him, but I could see myself in a relationship with him as long as I am allowed to be myself. I don't want to kiss or have sex with him. The question is, would it be fair to him to ask for a relationship under those conditions? Could it ruin our friendship? Could this cause drama, unnecessarily? Should I start a relationship, without romantic attraction? Should I propose a queerplatonic relationship? Am I really ready for this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isa1116 Posted September 8, 2023 Share Posted September 8, 2023 I don't really know what you should do since I have no experience but maybe casually bring up qprs and say you saw it on the internet or smth and see what he thinks of them? Idrk but maybe a variation of that? Hope that helped. :) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Picklethewickle Posted September 9, 2023 Share Posted September 9, 2023 How do you want your relationship with him to change, relative to how it is now? Determine how you would like things to be going forward, and find out how he would feel about those changes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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