AroAcedragon15 Posted May 2, 2023 Share Posted May 2, 2023 I was in tech today talking to a friend and he called me she which is correct but I had a weird reaction like it kinda threw me off guard and it was kinda uncomfortable for some reason. I don't hate she/her pronouns but why did I have such a weird reaction to it? I also like they/them pronouns but I don't know what to do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrueEvergreen Posted May 3, 2023 Share Posted May 3, 2023 Honestly I would say just do what feels comfortable, if the feeling doesn't keep happening, then it's good, but if it does happen more, then do whatever you feel necessary to help. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HelloThere Posted May 14, 2023 Share Posted May 14, 2023 (edited) On 5/2/2023 at 6:57 PM, AroAcedragon13 said: I was in tech today talking to a friend and he called me she which is correct but I had a weird reaction like it kinda threw me off guard and it was kinda uncomfortable for some reason. I don't hate she/her pronouns but why did I have such a weird reaction to it? I also like they/them pronouns but I don't know what to do. Yeah there was this one time where some obnoxious kid was going around jokingly asking for peoples pronouns and I said “he/him” with so much venom in my voice that I was surprised by it. XD I don’t even know why I did but every time someone asks what pronouns I go by I feel uncomfortable saying he/him. Idk it probably means nothing but I’m gonna really do some introspection before researching anything. I doubt it means anything and I would never say I’m a girl so idk what to think. I mean when I really think about it, I don’t fully see myself as a guy but I’m not gonna say I’m a girl, that’s not at all a consideration. Maybe enby or agender? I’m not sure but I’m gonna really think first. Edited May 14, 2023 by HelloThere Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SwiftySpeedy Posted May 15, 2023 Share Posted May 15, 2023 Maybe its simply that you don't hear people calling you specifically by your pronouns that often, and that's why you felt that way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HelloThere Posted May 15, 2023 Share Posted May 15, 2023 19 minutes ago, SwiftySpeedy said: Maybe its simply that you don't hear people calling you specifically by your pronouns that often, and that's why you felt that way. Yeah probably. I jump to conclusions a lot which is one of the main contributors to my self doubt. XD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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